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How the hell do I get him to breakup with me?

  • I've been with this guy for about three months. We've been in a LONG DISTANCE relationship. But ****. I need out. He's crazy obsessive. He has to be on the phone with me all the time. Like every second. He has to know who I'm texting 24/7. It was great in the beggining, buttt now i'm just not feeling it. He's suffocating me. I've TRIED to breakup with him. I told him I cheated on him. I told him I didn't want to do this. I told him I just thought we were better off as friends, I've even gone to the extent of getting one of those texting applications that gives you a new number &texted him acting like I was someone elsee, telling him I was cheating so on &so forth. I need to get HIM to breakup with ME but how?!

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    I see what your problem is. You tried but you didn't let him go. I've had an ex similar to this guy, for you breaking up with him will be a lot easier because it's long distance. If this guy is obsessive you have to be a lot more firm with him and tell him that you can't be with him, and just end it like that. It's pretty harsh, but if the guy is obsessive it works best that way because they usually don't want anything to end when things don't go their way. It seems like you don't even want this guy in your life at all, so the best thing I can tell you is to just call him and tell him your sorry and that you don't have feelings for him anymore, and that you wish him the best in life. After that you don't talk to him anymore, if you feel tempted to pick up his calls or messages after you dump him just delete everything of his existence. Sorry, but you kind of have to be a jerk to this guy for it to end.

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tell him you slept with another dude...lol lie to him about it...or tell him you cant do distance its hard on you and that youve met someone else...make him angry with you so that he doesnt want to be with you any more..pretty hard to get a guy to just break up with you especially a obsessive one

Be like " im breaking up with u" hang up and then go fin someone else

Just text him or call him and say " it's over it's not working out I don't feel the same and it's done." no explanation & don't let him fool you to stay with him tell him straight up. & do it as bad as he might make you feel or so just let him go.

I see what your problem is. You tried but you didn't let him go. I've had an ex similar to this guy, for you breaking up with him will be a lot easier because it's long distance. If this guy is obsessive you have to be a lot more firm with him and tell him that you can't be with him, and just end it like that. It's pretty harsh, but if the guy is obsessive it works best that way because they usually don't want anything to end when things don't go their way. It seems like you don't even want this guy in your life at all, so the best thing I can tell you is to just call him and tell him your sorry and that you don't have feelings for him anymore, and that you wish him the best in life. After that you don't talk to him anymore, if you feel tempted to pick up his calls or messages after you dump him just delete everything of his existence. Sorry, but you kind of have to be a jerk to this guy for it to end.

Babyface

Just text him or call him and say " it's over it's not working out I don't feel the same and it's done." no explanation & don't let him fool you to stay with him tell him straight up. & do it as bad as he might make you feel or so just let him go.

Stephanie

tell him you slept with another dude...lol lie to him about it...or tell him you cant do distance its hard on you and that youve met someone else...make him angry with you so that he doesnt want to be with you any more..pretty hard to get a guy to just break up with you especially a obsessive one

Wonderland Madness

Be like " im breaking up with u" hang up and then go fin someone else

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