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• My husband used to initiate sex probably 90% of the time probably like 5 times a week and I would be responsive probably 90% of the time the only time I would turn him down was if I wasnt feeling well or was extremely upset and even then I tried to be considerate of his feelings and not be rude just simply Im not really feeling well etc. Eventually he told me he wished I would initiate from time to time that it would make him feel more desired etc. Immediately when I began initiating he COMPLETELY stopped initiating ever. And now its to the point where he hardly ever initiates and has began turning me down. Which NEVER would have happened before when I was only initiating 10% of the time. So whats up with this? He tells me he wants me to initiate and then when I do he completely loses all interest in sex. And before you ask He's not having an affair, hes not gay, he doesnt have any medical problems, hes not bored cause Ill pretty much do anything in the bedroom and i mean anything as long as it involves just the two of us. I constantly switch things up offer variety, my appearance hasn't changed, no weight gain etc. I'm 31 5'7 110 lb long blonde hair and an exmodel. Not pregnant and no babies in the picture. The only thing that's changed is i started initiating, and of course more arguments because i no longer feel attractive because my husband never wants to have sex with me anymore never compliments me basically shows no interest in me at all. When I bring it up he just gets angry and sometimes tries to take credit for times ive initiated he'll say I just initiated the other night when in reality he didn't at all I was the one who initiated, basically if he has to put out any effort at all even if that just means rolling over and kissing my neck its like its just not worth it to him and he'd rather just go without. When he used to put out all kinds of effort before I was initiating Its like the more he sees I enjoy sex and want to do it with him the less he wants it?????Why? I thought guys wanted to know their wives enjoyed sex with them and wanted them to initiate. The other day he went as far as saying I was being pushy when I tried to initiate. When he's the one that told me he wanted me to start doing it. I feel like I can't win for losing he's never happy? I tried to ask him do you want to do XYZ to me? He said i dont know? Tonight I said you want me to go buy XYZ to play with in the bedroom tonight he said I dont know? please help whats up with this?

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