What does it feel like to have wanderlust?

I really like her and have for years. I wanna say what I feel. Should you ever give up on someone you like?

  • I feel like I can't give up. No matter what because in my heart I think it is there. Ok here is the story...I have known this girl since 10th grade. I ended up going to homecoming with her senior year. We both moved to the same area. She lives close to me now, but it is 7 years later. I never told her my feelings back then because I was too nervous/shy and was too dumb to realize what I could have had. We lived about 50 minutes apart and she has a busy schedule so it is not like she is available. Still I feel like you never get the perfect scenario and that sometimes the best things are harder. I don't want to never give it a shot because I think there is something there. I am very attracted to her, but I am not sure she knows that I am. I think she has an idea that I like her, but I think I either need to make a move or tell her how I feel. I am leaning towards telling her how I feel. We have hung out twice already, but I haven't said anything or made a move. I wanted to get back into talking/hanging out before I did , but now it has been several months. I didn't think all the feelings I used to have would come back like that, but they did. She is so amazing. I cant even describe it. Also the two times we have hung out since reconnecting she dressed nice and the second time seemed a little shy around me. I think she could possibly be the love of my life. I try to date other girls and I all I end up thinking about is her. I can't stop. They just don't make me feel the same right now. We have so much in common. We are both kinda goofy, intelligent, grew up together and get along really well. I feel this connection with her. Should I just tell her casually? Not make it too big of a deal? Would she like freak out if I tell her? We are supposed to hang out in a few weeks. I want to tell her how I feel and ask her to go on a date or two and see where it goes. I want to be like: It's been great reconnecting with you these last months. I really like hanging around you. You make me feel really good and always have. I have to be honest and say that I had a huge crush on you in HS, but I never came out. I don't know why. I still liked you, but when we reconnected I wasn't sure how much. I realized over the last few months I feel things more than friends with you. I want to know if you wanna go on a date with me and see where it goes.

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    You answered my question, it was very detailed thanks :) YES, YES, YES. Do that! See if a guy said that to me i would be overwhelmed, even if i didn't like him i would probably start to like him! This is the cutest thing ever and you need to tell her as soon as possible! Good Luck and i hope this goes well! From the answer you gave me, i based a questions on the points you made so could you do me a favor and answer it? It's on a different account just to clear that up ha. Sorry if it's long! http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkPPTViSPaTYJ4kQZHduYwkgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20120331151205AAVsimk

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You answered my question, it was very detailed thanks :) YES, YES, YES. Do that! See if a guy said that to me i would be overwhelmed, even if i didn't like him i would probably start to like him! This is the cutest thing ever and you need to tell her as soon as possible! Good Luck and i hope this goes well! From the answer you gave me, i based a questions on the points you made so could you do me a favor and answer it? It's on a different account just to clear that up ha. Sorry if it's long! http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkPPTViSPaTYJ4kQZHduYwkgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20120331151205AAVsimk

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Tell her. Say, look, I just want to lay my cards on the table because it's killing me inside, and just tell her. It's been a long time and if you don't do it, you'll sit there regretting it. If you tell her, what's the worse that could happen? She'll tell you that she doesn't like you like that, and you'll try to move on, and trust me, it won't be easy, but you won't regret doing it. The plus side to that is she may say she likes you back. Yay(: Hopefully. I really hope this blurb of nonsense helps. You answered my question, but I added more to it, if you could go back and read it please. And Good luck(:

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Tell her. Say, look, I just want to lay my cards on the table because it's killing me inside, and just tell her. It's been a long time and if you don't do it, you'll sit there regretting it. If you tell her, what's the worse that could happen? She'll tell you that she doesn't like you like that, and you'll try to move on, and trust me, it won't be easy, but you won't regret doing it. The plus side to that is she may say she likes you back. Yay(: Hopefully. I really hope this blurb of nonsense helps. You answered my question, but I added more to it, if you could go back and read it please. And Good luck(:

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