What to do??? Please help!!!?
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My husband and I came to Brazil for 5 months to introduce our new baby to his family and spend some quality time away from the harsh Canadian winter. Now, better yet, for a while, my husband has decided to stay here for good where we are living at my mother-in-law's place. She is a great person, but... is a mother-in-law and has decided to treat me with indifference for the past few weeks because I do not want to abandon Canada. She has a bit of health issues and for the past few months I been ignoring my own vacation to help her out around the house for she does not accept a maid to do so. Her 5 kids are exhausted and just go with the flow but I'm really tired already by doing things and if she is not re-doing them she is telling somebody (not me) "who did this/that? is not the way to do..." Really. I don't want to throw things at nobody's face but sometimes I really want to say something. Of course I'm way to polite/scared to do so. So instead, I just look and wait for the next day to come. It's been like that for a while... Ok, I'm originally from Brazil and have been living in Toronto for over 8 years and my mom still lives there; still, I fell in love with my new country and have been having a great difficulty by staying in Brazil. There was a tremendous cultural shock, since I left to Ca just days after turning 18 and have grown up in Ca where I became an adult. Well, things are not bad in here, but I don't have anything. Nor do I have anything there. I still have to finish my education for I had to spend a great deal learning the English language where to me was not ease and then came my beautiful baby girl. But opportunities are much better in Ca and even if things are wrong, there is always someone that will take care of things. Unlike here where corruption and dishonesty are sky-rocketing. Anyways, bottom line is I want to go back - tickets paid for - and my husband wants to stay. He has properties and so and do back home and back in Ca we have to work like any other person to achieve our objectives. Even tough things might not be easy, I love Canada and can't imagine live anywhere else. Well, maybe somewhere else, but not at my mother's-in-law place or city. Things and people are so different and the lack of respect and common sense are unbelievable. Well, has anyone else ever been in this situation? Am I being unreasonable for wanting to raise my baby in a better place? Is it ok to be treated bad for having my own desires and opinions? If you are out there and has the perfect answer, please answer my question. Thanks and have a good day!
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Answer:
You are married now hon, your first responsibilities is to your marriage, not your education which you should have finished before marrying, not to your family or canada, but to your marriage. You will have to decide what is most important to you.In the mean time, try to do things the way your mother in law wants them done.
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You are married now hon, your first responsibilities is to your marriage, not your education which you should have finished before marrying, not to your family or canada, but to your marriage. You will have to decide what is most important to you.In the mean time, try to do things the way your mother in law wants them done.
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