Whats going on with my "best friend"?
-
Okay, I know Annie since the second grade. We never really spoke until the fifth grade, and we became best friends. We had this huge argument and we made up in the middle of sixth grade, so we had 6 months ignoring each other. I was so happy because we were close again. Soon, we became BEST BEST BEST friends. Then, we went on to seventh grade. We were split up in to different classes but we were still pretty close. We are both still in seventh grade but i am fed up with her. She seems to not care about her grades, and hates it wen i talk to her about it. Shes also absent alot, and i told her thats going to affect her when she goes to high school. Sometimes i tell her things, and she answers very rudely to me. For the past two months, she's never the one that textx me first. I literally have to beg her to tell me about her crush/personal things. I dont want to do that. Everyday, all she does is listen to music and doesnt even talk to me or my other best friends. One of my friends told me, what is up with her? She didnt even say bye to us. We are like a little group since we always hang out together, but now we are like so disconnected. So I confronted her yesterday through facebook chat. She told me that she thought i was mad at her. And then told me that she has a lot through her mind. I told her that i was there for her and that she could trust me, but she refused. She said that shes afraid that ill judgee her. I was shhocked, because she should know that I dont judge people...instead I support them. Then I told her to tell someone else at least. Apperantly, shes going to tell her new best friend since she trusts her more. That hurted me a lot, and if my other best freiend heard that she would also be hurt. Im always there for her, and I support her but yet she tells her other best friend her personal things. My other best friend(the one I mentioned) told me that she feels the same way about her. She also doesnt keep secrets, but we still; trust her. Im just very upset. And also she said that she noticed we were drifting. That annoyed me because I had to be the one to tell her about it. She was just going to let our friendship go. Whats going on with her? Am I being a b"*tch, or what the hell is really happening? Thank you :)
-
Answer:
It sounds like she might be depressed.
Aly Mendez at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source
Other answers
Shes not a real friend
the reason that your friend thinks that your judging her is because of you getting on to her for her actions through school or other things that you disprove of... she is who she is and voicing your opinion is ok "sometimes"! she feels like she is not accepted by her best friend, meaning that to her you are mothering her istead of being her best friend..... think about it
the reason that your friend thinks that your judging her is because of you getting on to her for her actions through school or other things that you disprove of... she is who she is and voicing your opinion is ok "sometimes"! she feels like she is not accepted by her best friend, meaning that to her you are mothering her istead of being her best friend..... think about it
janaw
Shes not a real friend
It sounds like she might be depressed.
abercrombiegurl
Related Q & A:
- What is Chris Brown's best friend name?Best solution by answers.com
- Whats going on with my facebook?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Whats going to a footy match like? (1st time?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Whats going on with my computer monitor?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Whats going on with my ps3?
Just Added Q & A:
- How many active mobile subscribers are there in China?Best solution by Quora
- How to find the right vacation?Best solution by bookit.com
- How To Make Your Own Primer?Best solution by thekrazycouponlady.com
- How do you get the domain & range?Best solution by ChaCha
- How do you open pop up blockers?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.
-
Got an issue and looking for advice?
-
Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.
-
Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.
Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.