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If a girl does not return your emails or texts even after two dates?

  • Ok, I know question like this has been asked before, but before anyone answers, let me give background information. A few months ago in early January, I met a girl online and we hit off with back and forth emails for an entire month. We exchanged emails for a whole month, getting to know each other, talking about our interests before I asked her out for a cup of coffee. She said yes and we met for coffee two weeks later. We then went to a movie almost a month later (both of our schedules prevented us from seeing each other sooner) and I thought we hit it off. We enjoyed each other's company (or at least I thought we enjoyed each other's company), and before we left the movie theater, I asked her if she would be interested in going out again somewhere, and she said yes. I told her that I would shoot her an email later that week, and later that day, I texted her telling her I had a good time at the movies and hoped her a good week. 4 days later, I send her an email asking her if she would be interested going out for pizza at the waterfront the following weekend. 3 days pass and I didn't get an email back from her, so I texted her asking her if she got my email. I did send her another email the next day (which was yesterday as of writing), but it wasn't anything related to the (possible) date, but rather just sharing with her a video I had found that would spark her interest (don't really see anything wrong with that). So now it's tuesday and it's been 5 days since I've emailed her and still no response. I send a follow up text on Sunday and still no response. I know part of my gut feeling is that if a girl does not return emails or texts, then she has no interest. Well, we had two dates and we seem to hit it off pretty well (or at least I thought I did), and it seems unusual that she would not return any of my messages. I know she works full time and an active church and family life, so I give her the benefit of the doubt, but I find it odd that she takes so long to respond to emails. So my question is this: Given this situation, should I wait a couple days and see if she responds? Should I wait a couple days and call her again? Or should I just move on?

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    Should move on. If she ended up responding, then you will think what to do next. Seems like she will not though(. I do not where your hang out spot, probably big sites like dream marriage or match, but it is all about investing time and searching for special person. Keep on.

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Should move on. If she ended up responding, then you will think what to do next. Seems like she will not though(. I do not where your hang out spot, probably big sites like dream marriage or match, but it is all about investing time and searching for special person. Keep on.

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Hi Jake. You may not want to hear this but she is not interested. You already knew the answer to this question. When a girl does not communicate with you, she has no interest. Period! Yes, you both had a good time and you think that you are a match. Well, that was then. Anything could have happened since. An old boyfriend may have reentered her life, she may be online meeting different guys, she may have suddenly realized that she is just not ready to date, it could be a multitude of reasons. However, at the end of the day, it's all about action. When a girl truly likes a guy, she will go out of her way to ensure that she communicates with him. Even with a sudden emergency, she will still try to find the time to send you a quick message. You have gotten nothing from her. By no means should you call her again. Her phone didn't suddenly lose the ability to show her Caller ID. She knows that you have texted and called her. She has not responded. This means that she is not interested. You need to move on. The sooner you let her go, the sooner you can move on. There are a lot more girls out there.

Lucas

Hi Jake. You may not want to hear this but she is not interested. You already knew the answer to this question. When a girl does not communicate with you, she has no interest. Period! Yes, you both had a good time and you think that you are a match. Well, that was then. Anything could have happened since. An old boyfriend may have reentered her life, she may be online meeting different guys, she may have suddenly realized that she is just not ready to date, it could be a multitude of reasons. However, at the end of the day, it's all about action. When a girl truly likes a guy, she will go out of her way to ensure that she communicates with him. Even with a sudden emergency, she will still try to find the time to send you a quick message. You have gotten nothing from her. By no means should you call her again. Her phone didn't suddenly lose the ability to show her Caller ID. She knows that you have texted and called her. She has not responded. This means that she is not interested. You need to move on. The sooner you let her go, the sooner you can move on. There are a lot more girls out there.

Lucas

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