How should i make HER understand?i have Prom pictures on Facebook.?
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before i start these pictures are OVER 10 years old. At first some other friends of mine (and hers) got it into their heads from these pictures that i was somehow Married even though it is clear that the pictures are date-marked and i even state in the description when the pictures where taken. At first i had totally taken offense to the comments but then i thought; Wait Germans don't have Proms... But when i tried to tell her this is normal for people from the US; this is a Milestone for a lot of American Teenagers for the transition from a Child to an Adult. Since i went to 5 High schools in the span of 3 years, she hates the fact i have 'too many' female friends. She then stated that her other friends male or female don't have their prom pictures up since they didn't go to Prom or just don't have them up. She does not want to hear anymore and just wants the pictures down since its disrespecting her. and other guys don't keep in contact with Exes; it may be about the fact that 3-4 of the pictures have my date/Ex-girlfriend (even at the time of the prom we had broken up since i moved to Las Vegas from California the year before) in them. When i countered with 'well since I'm friends with nearly all my Exes, might that mean; I am not a Cheater, Butt-hole or any other type of Bad guy... because my Dad instilled in me to never burn a bridge with a woman' but due to the fact i have been constantly going overseas or changing bases is the reason why i have a number of Exes? i did take them down but i still want her to understand i that doing so it is really upsetting to me since this is my life but i want her to know that she is now my life as well.
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I'm not sure why this girl is freakin out over old pictures. It was prom over 10yrs ago. Its what we Americans do. If she cant get over your traditions and past how can she handle things if yahll come over here? She'll see all kinds of differences. Men and women can be friends...exs are allowed to still speak. Its about being comfortable in your own relationship to know and realize what you have and see that you can trust a person to know they arent doing anything. So you moved around a lot, and have a lot of exs. You're a man....what does she expect? Does she want some one with no dating experience? lol Stuff happens, people break-up, wasn't always for bad reasons. Maybe just realized you'd be better off as friends and so yah'll are....Sounds like the fact that shes jealous over something this little means shes even worse over other things. Also those who r jealous r usually those who r doing the cheating theirself. She needs to realize all people have a past and its what you are doing with her and yah'lls future together that matters.
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I'm not sure why this girl is freakin out over old pictures. It was prom over 10yrs ago. Its what we Americans do. If she cant get over your traditions and past how can she handle things if yahll come over here? She'll see all kinds of differences. Men and women can be friends...exs are allowed to still speak. Its about being comfortable in your own relationship to know and realize what you have and see that you can trust a person to know they arent doing anything. So you moved around a lot, and have a lot of exs. You're a man....what does she expect? Does she want some one with no dating experience? lol Stuff happens, people break-up, wasn't always for bad reasons. Maybe just realized you'd be better off as friends and so yah'll are....Sounds like the fact that shes jealous over something this little means shes even worse over other things. Also those who r jealous r usually those who r doing the cheating theirself. She needs to realize all people have a past and its what you are doing with her and yah'lls future together that matters.
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