What’s going through his head?
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hey so i’m a sophomore and i’m talking to an older guy who’s a junior. we’ve been talking for a while now and i can honestly say i’ve never been so happy. he treats me exactly how i’ve always wanted to be treated and everything has been perfect up until this past weekend. i went to virginia and he barely texted me the whole weekend. it wasn’t a big deal to me because i give him space and all but on sunday he tweeted” How do you choose between the right thing to do, and something you want to do but know it isn't right?”. this scared me a lot and all weekend i had a bad feeling in my stomach like our relationship was coming to an end. sunday morning i sent him a good morning text which he would usually answer but he didn’t. 3 hours later he texted me saying hey but didn’t even acknowledge my good morning text. after seeing that tweet, i lost it. i texted him and said i know something’s up and this is going to end. he replied and said no that’s not true at all. so i said then what’s up with all your tweets and why are you acting weird? and he said it’s nothing to worry about. so i said did you tweet that for nothing? and he said not for nothing but you don’t have to worry about it. so i apologized for assuming and let it go. on monday in school he was pretty normal (kissing me, holding my hand, etc) but he barely texted me. it’s so unlike him to not talk to me a lot. he texted me for 10 minutes then stopped answering so i let that go. i was still so worried that it was going to end that i broke down crying. i know something is on his mind but i don’t know if i’m involved. it could be a family problem but i don’t see why that would effect our relationship. i’m not going to ask him about it because i don’t want to start a fight or force him to tell me. i’m good at giving him space and i’ll let him to talk to me when he wants to. today i found out that this girl he used to date when he was a freshman who also broke his heart, is going to probably go to prom. with him. my friend told me that at softball someone said how he is going to ask her and how i was really mad about it. the thing is, i had no idea until today. i got really upset but in the beginning of the month he told my friend he was definitely going to ask me. my friend texted me and said she asked his friend and his friend said that he’s taking me to prom. i don’t want to ask him about the prom thing though because i don’t want to seem desperate like the other girl who apparently begged him to take her. my friend also asked him later in the day if he’s taking me to prom and he said “we”ll see”. prom is in 2 months so it needs to happen soon. lastly, if he does end up taking the other girl to prom, do i have the right to end it? my friend’s boyfriend asked another girl to prom and my guy said “wow he’s such an assshole for doing that. she should leave him.” it’s not the whole going to prom thing that will hurt me it’s the fact that he cared more about how the other girl feels than me. so what do you think is going through his head and what do you think about the prom situation?
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Answer:
First, we'll see = yeah, but i'm not quite ready. Or else he would've said Nope He's probably just going through a tough time. I will use twitter as a tool with girls to get them to do things. (I understand the mind so don't do this unless you do too). +If you are hot then you are the perfect girl, the amount of space and forgiveness. Damn.
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First, we'll see = yeah, but i'm not quite ready. Or else he would've said Nope He's probably just going through a tough time. I will use twitter as a tool with girls to get them to do things. (I understand the mind so don't do this unless you do too). +If you are hot then you are the perfect girl, the amount of space and forgiveness. Damn.
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