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  • So I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy. He was in his home town when we had a argument over the phone, a little misunderstanding as I see it. Now, due to his reaction when he is angry, we let it get too far. Its been two months ago since we had this argument. He left his home, went to another country on business. Now he's here in my country on business. The two month period between then and now, all i got from him was one text message, no calls from him and I refuse to call him because I want an apology. The text message read: "hi dear how are you? See you forgot me, but I can never forget you, like I told you before. I've been busy these days so much but I'll never forget you in my life, hope you to. I just wanted to say always take care of yourself and always be happy, that's all I want for you. I will always remember the love you brought into my life and all the times we shared, but still I care for you. take care. love you deeply." There has never been any sex, that's also confusing me. I can't I'm a booty call while he's here...right? what is this supposed to be? a break up text or something. Its been a month since he is here, but nothing but this text.

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    What he's saying is, "I understand if you don't want to see me, call me, or text me. If that's the case I think this is the end for us, even though I still love you." He really thinks you don't love him anymore. Had he been more confident about the way you were feeling, he'd do whatever he could to get through to you. He would've tried. This is a text from him saying that he's letting go of you. The fact that he said it like it's a good bye means he has no idea how you're feeling but is willing to let you go for your best interest. After all, you never told him how you felt. How is he supposed to know? You are not his booty call. If he wanted sex he would've just hit up some other chick and wouldn't give three damns about how his relations with you are. This text would not exist. It's not a breakup text, he thinks you two have already broken up. This is a follow up. Something a guy would send a girl after they've broken up and neither of them have talked for a few months. Text him back saying exactly who you feel. Because right now he has no idea and is basing his actions upon his judgement which pretty much consists of "we got in to a fight. she hasn't talked to me in months. she doesn't call me. guess i'll say good bye." Don't let your sense of pride let you lose a guy who really loves you. If you refuse to call him simply because he "got too far" over an argument.. you may be just as wrong as he is. It's never fun to lose out on love. ;)

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What he's saying is, "I understand if you don't want to see me, call me, or text me. If that's the case I think this is the end for us, even though I still love you." He really thinks you don't love him anymore. Had he been more confident about the way you were feeling, he'd do whatever he could to get through to you. He would've tried. This is a text from him saying that he's letting go of you. The fact that he said it like it's a good bye means he has no idea how you're feeling but is willing to let you go for your best interest. After all, you never told him how you felt. How is he supposed to know? You are not his booty call. If he wanted sex he would've just hit up some other chick and wouldn't give three damns about how his relations with you are. This text would not exist. It's not a breakup text, he thinks you two have already broken up. This is a follow up. Something a guy would send a girl after they've broken up and neither of them have talked for a few months. Text him back saying exactly who you feel. Because right now he has no idea and is basing his actions upon his judgement which pretty much consists of "we got in to a fight. she hasn't talked to me in months. she doesn't call me. guess i'll say good bye." Don't let your sense of pride let you lose a guy who really loves you. If you refuse to call him simply because he "got too far" over an argument.. you may be just as wrong as he is. It's never fun to lose out on love. ;)

L

Well, he thinks you forgot about him in your life. He thinks you don't like him anymore! Change that! He still loves you! Alot! :)

Dhanya

it sounds like a breakup text but a very nice one because he's wishing you well in life. But keep your head up theres plenty of guys out there! Or try even asking him... best of luck!

Laura

its like he's saying goodbye to you

Courtney

I would move on. First he accuses you of leaving them, following by saying he is better that you. Next we have a subtle boast about how busy he is. Again he implies he's the better person, saying he cares for you. I think it is mildly obsessive and possibly wanting to get back at you. If he cared about you as much as he said, he wouldn't have been so...strange. He would have been scared you wouldn't talk. And if he just wanted sex, it would've been more straightforward. TLDR - move on.

Edward D

i think it a breakup since its been nothing since the text and also how he says things in past-tense like its not anymore. the way he talks and when he says you forgot him its like hes saying hes breaking up because of something you did. it also seems he probably wanted an apologies from you and see how he didn't get it he says that you "forgot" him. you should probably call not necessarily for an apologies but an explanation, im not saying hes right and im not siding im just saying what i think hes probably thinking.

j roll

i think it a breakup since its been nothing since the text and also how he says things in past-tense like its not anymore. the way he talks and when he says you forgot him its like hes saying hes breaking up because of something you did. it also seems he probably wanted an apologies from you and see how he didn't get it he says that you "forgot" him. you should probably call not necessarily for an apologies but an explanation, im not saying hes right and im not siding im just saying what i think hes probably thinking.

j roll

I would move on. First he accuses you of leaving them, following by saying he is better that you. Next we have a subtle boast about how busy he is. Again he implies he's the better person, saying he cares for you. I think it is mildly obsessive and possibly wanting to get back at you. If he cared about you as much as he said, he wouldn't have been so...strange. He would have been scared you wouldn't talk. And if he just wanted sex, it would've been more straightforward. TLDR - move on.

Edward D

it sounds like a breakup text but a very nice one because he's wishing you well in life. But keep your head up theres plenty of guys out there! Or try even asking him... best of luck!

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