Ways to cope...i guess?
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heres the scoop i am almost 18. i have been with the same guy since i was 14. we are very close. i am not a ****. i have never been with anyone. i have exceptional grades. i go to an outreach school because i was fed up with little girl drama. i have been at the school for an entire school year plus about two months. in that time frame, i redid my whole grade 10, i did all of grade 11 and i have one grade 12 course left which i am mostly done. i have gotten my first aid. restricted and non restricted gun license. i have done two college courses and during all this i worked about 35-40 hours a week. while going to school. my days averaged at 18 hours. school 9-3 work 3:30-10/10:30 then homework until about 2. get up at 7/8ish and do it all over again. i listen and respect my parents. i dont drink, or smoke anything. when i talk to other kids parents, they actually have told me that i am a better kid then their own and would prefer me. im a good kid. the odd day off where i want to do something, i have to practically beg my mother to go out past 10, even on the weekend. only way i was able to go out past 10 without her freaking out on me is if i sat in the drive way. even then she would constantly text me and complain that i am out too late. i know people who are 15 and have a later curfew. i have never asked my parents for money since i was around 12 when me and my brothers started a lawn mow buisness, so basically when i starrted working. is there any way on this planet i can convince her that i deserve even a small amount of praise? such as not having to beg to go out? ive mentioned this to other ppl and they have said it seems like she is controlling me. she never has a reason why i cant do anything. it isnt like im drunk on a tuesday and doing five guys in the same night. im responsible and polite. i have no idea what to do. next to moving out and having no contact with her, i am pretty much stuck living as if i am not trusted to do anything or go anywhere. she says shes protective and doesnt want anything to happen to me. thing is, im ready to rebel against her more then respect her because i feel smothered. im at wits end. if there is anything i can do to have a bit more freedom, i think that would rock. and yes, i have said everything on here to her, and it has made zero difference. please and thank you.
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Answer:
Have her read what you just wrote, sometimes things come across better when written down, then see her reaction. plus your supposed to mistakes, technically your still a kid, would she prefer you mess up in college, where she cant be there to help you, or where and when she can help you?
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Have her read what you just wrote, sometimes things come across better when written down, then see her reaction. plus your supposed to mistakes, technically your still a kid, would she prefer you mess up in college, where she cant be there to help you, or where and when she can help you?
Autumn
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