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What do high schoolers think about this kind of girl?

  • So there is this girl at school who rarely talks to anyone at school (except her best friend) unless they talk to her first. At school, she is always focused on work because she takes focus medications. And, she always sits alone. A strange thing is, however, is she is absent A LOT. There is another particularly weird part: she is actually pretty attractive. She has nice hair, a nice smile, nice eyes, big boobs, and meat on her bones. Another odd thing is she is really funny, judging by her Facebook statuses. So, what do high school guys, or just any high schooler, think about girls like this? If she is attractive & funny, why wouldn't they talk to her? If she seemed like she was on drugs, how would it affect people's perception of her? What if she dressed kind of "slutty" by wearing really low cut shirts, would that affect what people think of her? And yes, this girl is me. I'm just wondering like why nobody likes me except my best friend and why I don't have any friends. Please do not give me advice on how to fit in and make friends and all that bull sh*t. Just tell me what high schoolers probably think about someone like me!

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    They dont talk to her because she is a loner. (rarely talks to anyone at school unless they talk to her first, she always sits alone, a strange thing is, however, is she is absent A LOT). She actually seems like the kind of girl I would like. She needs to put herself out there more, dressing slutty will just make things worse, as its more intimidating. In a social situation, people usually talk to people who talk to people, so the only way to break into that is to put herself out there. Honestly, I was just like that, and I always wondered why nobody would want to hang out with me, when I started college, everyone else was making new friends too, so it was easier, but I wished I had put myself out there more when I was in high-school.

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They dont talk to her because she is a loner. (rarely talks to anyone at school unless they talk to her first, she always sits alone, a strange thing is, however, is she is absent A LOT). She actually seems like the kind of girl I would like. She needs to put herself out there more, dressing slutty will just make things worse, as its more intimidating. In a social situation, people usually talk to people who talk to people, so the only way to break into that is to put herself out there. Honestly, I was just like that, and I always wondered why nobody would want to hang out with me, when I started college, everyone else was making new friends too, so it was easier, but I wished I had put myself out there more when I was in high-school.

Given B

its probably God sent that you dont get involved with these people and possibly make mistakes in various ways by getting in with those losers. personally i think you sound really cool so just wait till you have a life one day for friends. ps im 23 and i dont talk to anyone that i knew from high school

MUUAHHH

Im a guy and I wouldn't like it if she dressed slutty... The skanky look reminds me if AIDS. Anyway, I probably wouldn't ever get the chance to make conversation with a girl like that because I myself am similar in that I am quiet and find it hard to initiate a convo. Have few friends Ect. I'd probably want to be her friend though, just not really know what to say. She sounds very attractive though. Still, being the loner type that I am, I still wouldn't be able to say much without her talking to me first or at least showing some interest in wanting to make friends.

Departed

Being that you said you don't say the first words in a conversation, If it was me id think you somewhat anti-social and just want to be left alone. Also being that you sit alone and only talk to your best friend will make you seem ever more anti-social. If you did say "Hi." or sit by others might change that. On the if you dress slutty part.. If it were me id think it make you seem like your lowering your standards to get attention.. On the "If she seems like she was on drugs." part Id have to say if it really seems like your drugged id talk to your doctor about changing the dosing amount. I know how it feels to be the loner things do get better with just little changes, I hope things go better for you!

mattk1100

Im a guy and I wouldn't like it if she dressed slutty... The skanky look reminds me if AIDS. Anyway, I probably wouldn't ever get the chance to make conversation with a girl like that because I myself am similar in that I am quiet and find it hard to initiate a convo. Have few friends Ect. I'd probably want to be her friend though, just not really know what to say. She sounds very attractive though. Still, being the loner type that I am, I still wouldn't be able to say much without her talking to me first or at least showing some interest in wanting to make friends.

Being that you said you don't say the first words in a conversation, If it was me id think you somewhat anti-social and just want to be left alone. Also being that you sit alone and only talk to your best friend will make you seem ever more anti-social. If you did say "Hi." or sit by others might change that. On the if you dress slutty part.. If it were me id think it make you seem like your lowering your standards to get attention.. On the "If she seems like she was on drugs." part Id have to say if it really seems like your drugged id talk to your doctor about changing the dosing amount. I know how it feels to be the loner things do get better with just little changes, I hope things go better for you!

mattk1100

its probably God sent that you dont get involved with these people and possibly make mistakes in various ways by getting in with those losers. personally i think you sound really cool so just wait till you have a life one day for friends. ps im 23 and i dont talk to anyone that i knew from high school

You wanna know what guys think about you? they think your hot, the reason your alone? Because the way you act makes them think you have a BF for sure, they say a girl as hot as her sure has a BF, start to talk to people more, stop being silent and change your profile to general, you'll be fine and you won't need to change anything else, no drugs and no low cut shirts.

Marcos

communication is ur answers thats it just keep good conversation with everyone be nice and u should talk with others insted just waiting for them to talk to you

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