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My friend wants to go to the movies with me but I don't because she's really mean to me? :(?

  • Alright so my friend wants to watch this movie with me and I really, really, really want to see it. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'd be fine with going with her but she's always mean to me. She always blames me. She always says i'm doing something wrong when she does the same things to me and when I try to say it, she denys it. And then she says she does it but she it's not a big deal. And then she yells at me because I do the same thing. I try to be nice to her and stuff, but it's hard when I swear she's only using me. She teases me and only talks to me when we're the only people together. But even then, she says a lot of mean stuff to me that she thinks is a joke. And when I tell her to stop it she says I have no humour whenever someone says something small to her, she ends up crying! I'm getting off topic but the thing is that when she asked me, I told her maybe becuase I might see it with my cousin and she says that I should just bring him along and she asks me if he's cute and I said he's like ways older than her and he has a girlfriend, but she says oh well. The last time I went to the movie with her, she was being so mean to me because there were some "cute guys" behind us in the movie theatre and she was calling me stupid for doing that and so in the end I just became quiet, but she told me to talk because she wanted to impress the guys but the only way she can impress them is if she makes fun of me! I don't want to go with her but when I said maybe, she made a crying face and looked really sad and she shed a tear and I told her I would go with her but I don't know when I would have time. ANd now she keeps on making plans on when to see it. And just because I told her that I was going to buy popcorn, she became all sad and she had tears in her eyes just because she's trying to lose weight and she doesn't want to buy it. I mean, I guess she thought seeing popcorn or anything like that would make her want to eat it but once when we went to the movies, I got popcorn and she literally ate half of it. So then I moved it far away from her and she said I was hogging it. Then I moved it in the middle and when I was trying to get some, she said I was hogging it when she was literally finishing the whole thing! I try to talk to her and say something, when she starts crying after and its annoying me so much! I don't want to hurt her feelings so I don't know...what should I tell her? And I odn't really want to lie to her... What should I do to not go the movies with her and how can I get her to stop being so mean to me?! Okay, I got really off topic. I guess I just wanted to give a huge explanation on why I don't want to go with her because of all the mean things she does to me. I just want to know how to tell her that I don't want to go with her...but in a nicer way. I don't want to lie to her and i'm tired of seeing her sad face and crying! So I just want to know how to tell her I don't want to go to the movies with her...? Okay, I got really off topic. I guess I just wanted to give a huge explanation on why I don't want to go with her because of all the mean things she does to me. I just want to know how to tell her that I don't want to go with her...but in a nicer way. I don't want to lie to her and i'm tired of seeing her sad face and crying! So I just want to know how to tell her I don't want to go to the movies with her...? Okay, I got really off topic. I guess I just wanted to give a huge explanation on why I don't want to go with her because of all the mean things she does to me. I just want to know how to tell her that I don't want to go with her...but in a nicer way. I don't want to lie to her and i'm tired of seeing her sad face and crying! So I just want to know how to tell her I don't want to go to the movies with her...?

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    You're a nice person for trying not to hurt your friend's feelings even if she's so mean to you. Well... I guess you could say that you didn't finish your homework as an excuse to not go to the movies. I think you should talk to her about the teasing so that she can understand how you feel. Good luck!

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Tell her no. She is using you so do not allow her to do that. So what if she cries, it is how she manipulates you. It is fake. You can find a better friend than this. Join some school activities and meet other people.

You are being manipulated by her. Because you have a very low selft esteem and she is way dominant. The fact she is frienda with u is because you are easily manipulated. Try to increase your self confidence by going with other people or relatives. Try smiling and laughing a loud in crowds. Go out there and practice your social skills.

L

Ok. This so called "friend" is not a friend at all. She is using u. Just tell her straight up that u can't handle all this crying crap and how rude she is to u. If she gets pissed, stop talking to her and go hang out with your real friends. if she really was a friend, she wouldn't be doing any of these things. Gosh, Ive only heard a paragraph about her and she's already annoying me! So yeah, just say no. Or something like ur no friend. Who cares about her feelings, well i shouldn't say that but, u really don't need someone like that in ur life. But whatever u chose, have fun.

Marilyn

There's a girl like that and she is ANNOYING I have almost the exact same situation. This is what I did idk if this will work for you but anyway. Every time she did that I would quick make some plans of some sort even if it was only doing my laundry or finishing my homework and text her back and say "hey sorry I have other plans" that way you aren't lying to her and you wont have to put up with her. BUT, if shes anything like the girl who bothers me she wont give up. So just keep making plans or whatever and pretty soon she will give up (hopefully). If that doesn't work ( and I know this is scary) just say "girl STOP IT! buy your own popcorn. or say "aren't you trying to lose weight. I'm sorry about your problem honestly if she was actually your friend she wouldn't be that mean. especially if she never apologizes.

Victoria Annable

There's a girl like that and she is ANNOYING I have almost the exact same situation. This is what I did idk if this will work for you but anyway. Every time she did that I would quick make some plans of some sort even if it was only doing my laundry or finishing my homework and text her back and say "hey sorry I have other plans" that way you aren't lying to her and you wont have to put up with her. BUT, if shes anything like the girl who bothers me she wont give up. So just keep making plans or whatever and pretty soon she will give up (hopefully). If that doesn't work ( and I know this is scary) just say "girl STOP IT! buy your own popcorn. or say "aren't you trying to lose weight. I'm sorry about your problem honestly if she was actually your friend she wouldn't be that mean. especially if she never apologizes.

Victoria Annable

Ok. This so called "friend" is not a friend at all. She is using u. Just tell her straight up that u can't handle all this crying crap and how rude she is to u. If she gets pissed, stop talking to her and go hang out with your real friends. if she really was a friend, she wouldn't be doing any of these things. Gosh, Ive only heard a paragraph about her and she's already annoying me! So yeah, just say no. Or something like ur no friend. Who cares about her feelings, well i shouldn't say that but, u really don't need someone like that in ur life. But whatever u chose, have fun.

Derphole

You are being manipulated by her. Because you have a very low selft esteem and she is way dominant. The fact she is frienda with u is because you are easily manipulated. Try to increase your self confidence by going with other people or relatives. Try smiling and laughing a loud in crowds. Go out there and practice your social skills.

L

Tell her no. She is using you so do not allow her to do that. So what if she cries, it is how she manipulates you. It is fake. You can find a better friend than this. Join some school activities and meet other people.

Dovahkiin

You're a nice person for trying not to hurt your friend's feelings even if she's so mean to you. Well... I guess you could say that you didn't finish your homework as an excuse to not go to the movies. I think you should talk to her about the teasing so that she can understand how you feel. Good luck!

Jeffrey

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