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My parents make my life a hell ?

• I was born in Pakistan, I came to Canada when I was 2 . I'm currently 14 years old, and my parents keep taunting me that they want me to stay away from boys . I didnt even do anything, I just left on my Facebook account and my dad saw that I talk to boys on Facebook and he automatically assumed that I have a boyfriend and I'm engaged in this stuff . Although I did have a boyfriend, my parents didnt know, but he broke up with me a few days ago, and I'm still getting over him. My aunt in Pakistan fell in love with someone in Pakistan, and had to elope to get married, ever since, my family threatens to kill her, or atleast harm her . My parents think I will do the same and threaten to get me married by the age of 18, to whomever they want . They say that if they ever find that I am doing things that might lead to me, marrying someone of my own choice, they'll kill me before I ever have the chance . I know, my parents mean this LITERALLY . I just want to live my life, I'm young, wild, free, vivacious . But my parents make my life a hell . Its gotten to the point that my parents dont even care about my education, my dad said I dont even have to be educated till grade 10, and they could move back to Pakistan if they need to . Please, I dont want to live in some third world country . As a child, the only option my parents ever gave me, was to be a doctor . I fear blood, but my parents wouldnt know, since they've never tried to understand me . My parents think learning to be a housewife is more important than being able to have a job and earn money . I'm getting very high marks in school, and I want to be a biologist when I grow up . I want to marry the person I love, and who I know will understand me . I want to own a home, have 2 children, and be able to care for my family and be stable when I grow up . My parents themselves have told me, they are ashamed of having a daughter, and they cant wait to marry me off and get rid of me . I dont know what to do, I'm a very lively girl, with many dreams and ambitions in life . But I am fighting my own parents for this right, to a life of my own choices and decisions . Is this not a basic human right ?

• Answer:

  If you feel physically threatened you can seek help from the authorities to get you out of there... I think its great that you want to be independant/have a job and marrry who you love despite your parent's narrow mindedness. You could just hold out until you're 18, when you will be legally free to walk out, although if you fear for your physical safety I urge you to contact the authorities. You will be free! Never give up your dreams and ambitions, good luck to you x