Am I gay? I think Im having a sexuality crisis?

So your 21 and your parents are the problem. move out

So your 21 and your parents are the problem. move out

Sexuality is complex, and to be honest, I stopped liking labels, such as heterosexual and homosexual and bisexual, because of that. It's far too complex for a single label. There is nothing wrong with not knowing what you are. Life is spent figuring out who we are, and that's okay. Personally, love is genderless, and thus whoever you do end up falling in love with is okay, and it will happen when it happens. I wouldn't worry too much or stress too much trying to figure out what you like and whatnot. Trust me. When it happens and if it's right, you'll know. ;) Best of luck to you. :D

You sound gay to me. You should know yourself.

Have you heard of the Kinsey scale? It's a sexual which determines how gay or how straight you are. 0 being extremely straight with no homosexual attraction. 6 being extremely gay with no straight attraction. 3 being bisexual. However, since the scale is from 0-6 people can still fall anywhere between 0 and 6. My guess is you'd probably be a 5. You should live your life how you want to. Don't let anyone hold you back.

Have you heard of the Kinsey scale? It's a sexual which determines how gay or how straight you are. 0 being extremely straight with no homosexual attraction. 6 being extremely gay with no straight attraction. 3 being bisexual. However, since the scale is from 0-6 people can still fall anywhere between 0 and 6. My guess is you'd probably be a 5. You should live your life how you want to. Don't let anyone hold you back.

You sound gay to me. You should know yourself.

First of all, guys sexually peak around age 21, so you actually probably have more hormones now than you have ever had. You just are probably used to them now too, so you can handle it. But the thing is, you made yourself homosexual by watching the homosexual porn and by choosing to fantasize about other guys at school. It is natural to enjoy sexual stimulation, and part of your reproductive system that transports semen goes so close to the rectum that that is accessible from there. Listen, if it were just up to me, I would say I see nothing wrong with masturbation and you could do whatever you want. In fact, many straight men also enjoy the dildo. But God says it's a sin, so don't do it. God destroyed two cities, Sodom and Gomorrah to make it absolutely clear as to the kind of behavior that is not acceptable. But if all you are asking is whether you are homosexual or not, then you need to just ask yourself; it's your preference. You might as well be asking on Y!A what your favorite color is. You choose your sexual preference. If you wanted to be straight then you would get over your fear of female reproductive parts. It's up to you. It's your choice. People can acquire a taste for fine wine. Then they can become drunks, join AA and abstain from it. If you decide that you fear hell enough, you can abstain from anything. Edit: this is no place for a discussion. If you want to discuss it, feel free to email me. I'm one of the few people who accept them. Or perhaps a discussion board would be better. But your very first paragraph says that you had a crush on two girls when you were younger, so your later assertion that if anything seeing straight porn done this to you sounds like a lie. Now I am not trying to get your goat by saying that; I think you are only deceiving yourself. As another responder suggested, why not stop using labels? It seems silly to self identify with your preferences. I don't see people going around saying they're a chocolate lover or they're a masturbator. Some people prefer masturbation to any kind of intercourse. In your case, you've never had sex, so how could you know which one you would prefer? Males with anxiety often choose to be gay because they are more comfortable with males. Males tend to want the same things and go at the same pace, so there is less awkwardness and you can know what to expect. I think you are confusing this lack of anxiety with a sexual preference. As a boy, you may have felt an attraction to boys, but this was assuredly not a sexual attraction. People are drawn to leaders, for example. A friendship, the feeling of comradery, etc. is not the same thing as sexual attraction, though as in the case of the Spartans, they can mesh. A persons choice of preference is often a subconscious one, or at least the decision making process is. That doesn't make it any less a choice, and you can always change your mind, though once you program your mind, it is not easy and takes time to change it. The bottom line: if you want to be straight, you can choose to be. If you want to be bi or homosexual, then you have God to contend with. Good luck with that.

First of all, guys sexually peak around age 21, so you actually probably have more hormones now than you have ever had. You just are probably used to them now too, so you can handle it. But the thing is, you made yourself homosexual by watching the homosexual porn and by choosing to fantasize about other guys at school. It is natural to enjoy sexual stimulation, and part of your reproductive system that transports semen goes so close to the rectum that that is accessible from there. Listen, if it were just up to me, I would say I see nothing wrong with masturbation and you could do whatever you want. In fact, many straight men also enjoy the dildo. But God says it's a sin, so don't do it. God destroyed two cities, Sodom and Gomorrah to make it absolutely clear as to the kind of behavior that is not acceptable. But if all you are asking is whether you are homosexual or not, then you need to just ask yourself; it's your preference. You might as well be asking on Y!A what your favorite color is. You choose your sexual preference. If you wanted to be straight then you would get over your fear of female reproductive parts. It's up to you. It's your choice. People can acquire a taste for fine wine. Then they can become drunks, join AA and abstain from it. If you decide that you fear hell enough, you can abstain from anything. Edit: this is no place for a discussion. If you want to discuss it, feel free to email me. I'm one of the few people who accept them. Or perhaps a discussion board would be better. But your very first paragraph says that you had a crush on two girls when you were younger, so your later assertion that if anything seeing straight porn done this to you sounds like a lie. Now I am not trying to get your goat by saying that; I think you are only deceiving yourself. As another responder suggested, why not stop using labels? It seems silly to self identify with your preferences. I don't see people going around saying they're a chocolate lover or they're a masturbator. Some people prefer masturbation to any kind of intercourse. In your case, you've never had sex, so how could you know which one you would prefer? Males with anxiety often choose to be gay because they are more comfortable with males. Males tend to want the same things and go at the same pace, so there is less awkwardness and you can know what to expect. I think you are confusing this lack of anxiety with a sexual preference. As a boy, you may have felt an attraction to boys, but this was assuredly not a sexual attraction. People are drawn to leaders, for example. A friendship, the feeling of comradery, etc. is not the same thing as sexual attraction, though as in the case of the Spartans, they can mesh. A persons choice of preference is often a subconscious one, or at least the decision making process is. That doesn't make it any less a choice, and you can always change your mind, though once you program your mind, it is not easy and takes time to change it. The bottom line: if you want to be straight, you can choose to be. If you want to be bi or homosexual, then you have God to contend with. Good luck with that.