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My GF agreed to send n*de pics to a guy she was seeing before me...but sent it while we were together!?

  • So me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month since 19th Feb, my sister was snooping through her facebook private messages and showed me some messages. One message was of her flirting with this guy and agreeing to send him pics after he asked for some with her asking for pics from the guy in return, the guy refers to the pics as "sexy pics" etc. So anyway, this happens before we even met as we met on the 16th of Feb and starting going out on the 19th, this convo with this guy happened on the 8th, anyway, so they kind of stop speaking for a while and the guy says she sucks for not sending the pictures, she then replies (this is now during the time me and her are now going out as this was on the 8th of March) "didn't you get them" and "i've sent them to your email" and put's a love heart at the end of the message and kisses, the guy the says why didn't she send it through text and she then asks for his number and sends the nude pictures to his phone, he then wrote "sweet" and since then they haven't spoke, well at least according to the messages. This sending of messages to his phone all happened around 2 weeks after we starting going out. Would you class this as cheating, i'm guessing she sent the pics before she was with me but why would she reply to this guy while me and her were going out with a love heart and kisses saying that she sent the "sexy pictures" to his email, wouldn't she just cut all contact as she now has a boyfriend. The reason why i'm even asking this is because of the way she is, if this was any other girl and relationship i'd let is slide as it was the beginning of the relationship, but with her she's always going on about how she's never felt this way and how she loves me so much and how i don't understand how deep her love is for me etc, how she wants to marry me have my kids etc this was all after the first couple of days of going out, the she goes and sends that message to that guy i mean WTF, is this cheating anyway?

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    So she tells you within a few days she loves you deeply and wants to marry you and have your children and yet sends sexy pics to another guy too? Doesn't this tell you this girl is a little flaky? Not sure it would be technically cheating but she doesn't sound like great girlfriend material.

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you cant turn a hoe into a house wife.

Kevin

you cant turn a hoe into a house wife.

Kevin

So she tells you within a few days she loves you deeply and wants to marry you and have your children and yet sends sexy pics to another guy too? Doesn't this tell you this girl is a little flaky? Not sure it would be technically cheating but she doesn't sound like great girlfriend material.

Bears Mom

she is cheating and she is a slut and a prevert **** her at the time kick on her *** and get her ******* out of the place

Kazim

she is cheating and she is a slut and a prevert **** her at the time kick on her *** and get her ******* out of the place

Kazim

your girlfriend just sounds like she's a bit confused. she probably felt bad that her messages never sent and he probably made her feel guilty and so she re-sent them out of guilt. they haven't talked since then and she hasn't flirted since then so it seems like she was only trying to keep her word with him. as long as she doesn't do anything else then you should be fine. definitely keep an eye open for anything else suspicious though, but DON'T let your sister snoop through her personal messages! it's wrong and if your girlfriend found out she wouldn't trust your sister or you anymore. and you've only been together a month and already talking about marriage? whoa, slow down! sure, she may feel different about you, but don't jump into anything too early! especially after the "sexy pictures" situation. take things really slow and start to earn each other's trust and see how you two get along after many more months of being together before considering marriage! some people change their minds after being together for so long. take things slow, be cautious, but don't snoop anymore :) good luck!

Britty

1. At any point in time did you have the talk prior to the pics? The one where you tell her you care about her and want her to be your gf? That you don't want her seeing anyone else? 2. I think you need to get a clear view on dating. Dating is a free for all. Once you have the commitment conversation after that is when you can get upset about things like this. 3. Just because she tells you she wants to have your kids - does not mean 'I won't see anyone else, if you won't.

mmm

your sister went through her facebook account and you didn't go mad at her? I don'tcare what she found, she wanted to do something horrible to this woman and get you to dump her, sounds like your sisters a little bit too close to you and you need to remember she is your sister, not your girlfriend or mother. This happened right at the beginning of when you were dating at a time when you both wouldn't quite know if it was serious and you are going to let your sister do this dreadful betrayal without any punishment and then put it all onto your girlfriends shoulders.? sounds like your sister is the one with the issues and so are you. How disgusting.

Danin

your girlfriend just sounds like she's a bit confused. she probably felt bad that her messages never sent and he probably made her feel guilty and so she re-sent them out of guilt. they haven't talked since then and she hasn't flirted since then so it seems like she was only trying to keep her word with him. as long as she doesn't do anything else then you should be fine. definitely keep an eye open for anything else suspicious though, but DON'T let your sister snoop through her personal messages! it's wrong and if your girlfriend found out she wouldn't trust your sister or you anymore. and you've only been together a month and already talking about marriage? whoa, slow down! sure, she may feel different about you, but don't jump into anything too early! especially after the "sexy pictures" situation. take things really slow and start to earn each other's trust and see how you two get along after many more months of being together before considering marriage! some people change their minds after being together for so long. take things slow, be cautious, but don't snoop anymore :) good luck!

Britty

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