How does the declination change as you move north from where you live?

Would you move in with your sister or move to a different town with your mom?

• I'll be 17 next month. My sister is 20. She lives with her boyfriend (22). Her boyfriends brother (20) & wife (19) also live there. Also, some guy lives there (25) but hes suppose to be moving out sometime. There have been a lot of changes. Too many to list but it has made my mom to decide to move back to her hometown (to be closer to her mom & other relatives/friends) Shes told me I can either move in with my sister or move away with her. This place that my moms moving to is 2 hours away. I use to live there when i was a kid & I love it. Its a hugeee city. Where i live now is tiny as ****! I kind of want to move with my mom because: 1)I have cousins my age up there. (but im socially awkward sooo idk) 2)Its way bigger up there. 3)I'd like to do things like "reinvent" myself. Like, new haircut/ clothes/ etc. because im too scared to change too much here because i dont like the way people make a huge deal & react to it. 4) I dont really have friends here. I have guys that use me for sex. Ok, I also want to move in with my sister. 1) Im scared I wont make new friends if i move. Like i said, i dont have friends here but atleast guys talk to me when they want sex (sounds bad but atleast im not completely alone like i would be if i moved up there.) 2) My sister & them have parties and they let me drink when there around (they say theyd rather me drink there than going out & being unsafe) 3) Its more fun being with them 4) I feel less lonely when im with them 5) They always make me go to school when i stay over there lol i kinda never go to school when im at home with my mom 6) They live right beside my highschool (my mom lives 30 mins away from school) But at my sisters, id have to stay in my sister & boyfriends room until that guy moves out, which is what i do when i spend the nights over there but like it sucks havin to sleep on the floor (Oh & my mom is gonna give us(me & my sister together) 300$ a month is that enough?.) Should I move away with my mom or stay with my sister? What would you do?

• Answer:

  move away with your mom..you will make new friends..you will see and experience may new things and have a lot more oppurtunities than you do now..you sis may break up with her boyfriend and then both of you will be on your butts...so move with your mom..she can provide a more stable environment for you