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Which girl should I choose?

Which girl should i choose ?

  • Ok so i'm with this girl who i love a lot but then i met this other girl who i have been talking with and stuff like that who just makes me happy just being able to see and now im kinda in a situation where idk which one to choose i have strong feeling for both of the girls and i'm kinda pushing more towards the girl i'm not going out with because well i'm always smiling around her where theres never a moment where i feel un happy as with my current gf theres always times where she just makes me angry or sad and especially when it should be a fun time for me, they both are in love with me btw like they both have told me that and the one im not with i have had a thing with her in the past and i've helped through some tough times in her life and i guess in doing those things i've won her heart to , idk which one i should go with if any advice on how i should go about thinking about this and how i could let either one down that i'm not going to be with them would be a great help cuase i've never actually had to break up with a girl before its always happened to me and theres not a way that i could make my current gf break up with me cuase i've already had someone try to make it happen by telling that i cheated on her and she beleived that person cuase it was a friend of hers that lied yet she didnt leave me still, so that wouldnt be a viable option for a break up so any advice at all would be greatfull thanks :)

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    first of all .. really?? how old are you? obviously you don't take love too seriously, or you wouldn't be in this situation. if you love someone, you love them when things are good, and when they're bad. you don't go around and find someone else who makes you happier. even if you choose this other girl, i'm sure you'll date, and then things would be as great, and will turn out just as they are now with your current girlfriend, then you'll go looking for someone else. i think you should break up with your girlfriend, because honestly this is very mean to put her through this, dating her when you don't even want to. don't make up any excuses or sugar coat it. just tell her straight out how you feel. you're young, i'm sure she'll get over it and find a new, better boyfriend. who doesn't have this problem.

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Well firstly when you first starting seeing/ dating i call it the "honeymoon period". Everything is perfect,your happy shes happy, no fights no nothing just love. After a while you fight you argue, but thats how a relationship is, but the love is still there! I think maybe that's whats happening with your current gf. The other girl your seeing, everything is fresh and new and exciting. No argument just happy! You cant use that as an excuse to dump your current gf! In the end we can't tell you who to choose. The decision had to be made by you. Sit down by yourself, and think hard! who cant you live without more! Will you regret it later on? You cant have both! Thats unfair to them both! and the truth is, your going to have to let one down either you like it or not! So man up grow some balls and choose ONE.

If you don't feel good with your current GF just tell her. As for the other girl, if you plan on dumping your current GF and going out with her, make sure she likes you too first. No reason to be with someone you're not happy with.

Well firstly when you first starting seeing/ dating i call it the "honeymoon period". Everything is perfect,your happy shes happy, no fights no nothing just love. After a while you fight you argue, but thats how a relationship is, but the love is still there! I think maybe that's whats happening with your current gf. The other girl your seeing, everything is fresh and new and exciting. No argument just happy! You cant use that as an excuse to dump your current gf! In the end we can't tell you who to choose. The decision had to be made by you. Sit down by yourself, and think hard! who cant you live without more! Will you regret it later on? You cant have both! Thats unfair to them both! and the truth is, your going to have to let one down either you like it or not! So man up grow some balls and choose ONE.

Jenny

first of all .. really?? how old are you? obviously you don't take love too seriously, or you wouldn't be in this situation. if you love someone, you love them when things are good, and when they're bad. you don't go around and find someone else who makes you happier. even if you choose this other girl, i'm sure you'll date, and then things would be as great, and will turn out just as they are now with your current girlfriend, then you'll go looking for someone else. i think you should break up with your girlfriend, because honestly this is very mean to put her through this, dating her when you don't even want to. don't make up any excuses or sugar coat it. just tell her straight out how you feel. you're young, i'm sure she'll get over it and find a new, better boyfriend. who doesn't have this problem.

bumblebeeetuna.

If you don't feel good with your current GF just tell her. As for the other girl, if you plan on dumping your current GF and going out with her, make sure she likes you too first. No reason to be with someone you're not happy with.

Ognyan

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