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My friend is going to backstab me! What should I do!?

  • Well hello to everyone who reads this. :)) I made this question short and understandable enough so please may you answer? Well I'm a girl and I'm mostly known at my school for being crazy, weird, smart, funny and so much more! Well at the begginning of the school year this girl started talking to me on our bus. At first I thought she was quiet and hardly talk but I continued to talk to her until she somehow responded and she did. Now she talks and doesn't go ghost on me. Anyway as days went by, I started to realize she was being rude to me and somehow using me. Like one day I had money then she asked me for a $1 so she can buy something because she was hungry but I said no because that was my LUNCH money and obviously I didn't use it because I was saving it up for tomorrow so no I didn't have lunch. But she kept complaining and said she was hungry and I said I'm hungry to. I asked her if she had lunch and she said yes and she has FREE lunch, I DON'T and I kept telling her that but she don't care. She kept bothering me so I gave her a $1 so she can buy something to F***ing eat and I told her to pay me back the next day but she never did... ...:( I also think she's a total brat. She gets whatever she wants {No I meant compared to me I never said she was rich-rich}. Like this one day she kept saying, "Oh I'm getting a iPad!" and I said good but she kept going on and on! Honestly I don't care! But do I tell her that? No because that's just rude. Then when it was her birthday, she constantly kept asking me what I was going to get her for her birthday and I said nothing because it's not like I get anything and plus I have nothing AT ALL. Then she said get me 8 books then and I'm like WTF? Well here's the problem: I just talked to her on the phone last night and she got a few things out of her mind and I was shocked about what she said. When she first met me, she thought I was ugly, stupid/ dumb, I was rude and had a bad attitude, and so much more things I could hardly bare! I asked her if she remembered what she did and she said no, she didn't do anything wrong and I was absolutly going insane when she said all those horrible things about me! First of all, I'm not UGLY because her skin color is black like midnight {Not racist I'm just saying} and I'm not STUPID because I'm a F***ing honor roll student but she ain't know that! She's only in INTENSIVE classes, I have GIFTED classes so she did to get her facts straight. And plus she's calling me a low-class. Anyway I told her I'm not going to act "Crazy" "Weird" "Funny" around her anymore because of what she said. I never knew this is how she felt and this is F***ing rediculous! What kind of "Friendship" is that? What should I do? I can't end the friendship because she told me she's going to tell my best guy friend I like him and other things I said about him which is going to ruin our friendship FOREVER! But I don't like him anymore that was way before and I don't know how I'm going to convince him... ..She has him as a friend on Facebook she could do anything as far as I know... .. Thanks.

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    just stop being her friend thats not a real friend find way better friends or if you have friends already stick with them and ignore her.

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Honestly, if the guy is your true friend tell him what is going on. Of course, if he is a true friend he will understand and not care. If you don't like him anymore than there is nothing to really be afraid of. Just get to him before she does.

Well if this was my situation, I would end the friendship with her because she's obviously a *****. Who cares about the boy. Just tell him you're over him or that the girl made up all the stuff you said about him because she was mad that you guys weren't friends anymore.

well first drop her and talk to your friend and and say hey yes i did like you before but i dont like you like that anymore just be honest with him he wont be mad or anything because it was in the past

Well if this was my situation, I would end the friendship with her because she's obviously a *****. Who cares about the boy. Just tell him you're over him or that the girl made up all the stuff you said about him because she was mad that you guys weren't friends anymore.

Kelci Ace

Honestly, if the guy is your true friend tell him what is going on. Of course, if he is a true friend he will understand and not care. If you don't like him anymore than there is nothing to really be afraid of. Just get to him before she does.

Tasha

well first drop her and talk to your friend and and say hey yes i did like you before but i dont like you like that anymore just be honest with him he wont be mad or anything because it was in the past

drea_luis

just stop being her friend thats not a real friend find way better friends or if you have friends already stick with them and ignore her.

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