Why does my face always get so hot and red?

Why does my face get hot and red when embarrassed?!?

• Im 15, will i grow out of this? ok, so in the past 3-4 months, ive noticed that I start to blush when im embarrased because my friend told me i do at certain points. But before he started brining it to my attention that I do this, I never really used to get red and hot with embarrassment, I actually felt very comfortable talking infront of a lot of people, and I was the best student in my drama class. Now it seems like I get red at almost anything, from talking to girls, answering questions in class, and talking infront of my class. I really hate that this has been happening lately, and I think I may have some ideas as to why this is happening. So I recently lost about 30 pounds, and I think that this may contribute to me getting red and hot, because all of the fat that was covering my face hid the redness(seems kinda silly, but its just an idea). The other reason I think it may be happening is because my friend pointed it out once to me, which makes me think about turning red and worrying about it when I speak infront of girls or the class. I never used to turn red and hot in the face, I was a smooth talker and was also known as telling good jokes and being a class clown. I feel like I have turned into a hermit at school not wanting to socialize much besides with the people I feel comfortable with. Could someone give me some Ideas as to how I can get back to my old, non red faced easily embarrassed, self. Thanks a lot p.s. I took Drama last year, and speech the year before, and was one of the best in the class in it. I decided to skip it this year, and I think that class really helped me come out of my comfort zone and practice talking infront of people, so I may take it next year

• Answer:

  It seems lIke you need to be comfortable in your self maybe you should take drama and speech back it seems your confidence is shot, what you need to do is just accept you get embarressed and force your self not to I was like you but when I got embarressed my voice disappeared and I was left coughing and red in the face I over came this by think to my self these I don't care about what they think you are who you are make fun of your self when you blush it helps and just relax around people. It sucks to be 15 but it sucks to be a recluse so just chil Hope this helps =]