Should I take a break from school and move to Los Angeles to pursue acting?
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Okay, I know I'm going to get many eye-rolls for this, but I have to ask an impartial, unbiased audience this rather lengthy question. I am a 21 year old, attractive male college student, and I have a dilemma. But before I just jump right into it, I'd like to paint a bit of a mental picture of myself to you. I've always been an artistic type, growing up. I used to write endless novels of my own, and I was an avid pencil-sketch enthusiast. In high school, I became a bit of an outcast (mostly due to my introverted nature). I started playing sports, which I was decent enough at, but never really enjoyed. I made friends through them, but I never completely felt like I "fit in". Then senior year came. My mother had always tried to get me to branch-out a bit and spread my wings, so when an opportunity arose for me to join a school play, she took advantage of it. I never thought twice about joining a play before, until she bet me 20 dollars that I was too afraid to give it a shot. I took her up on the bet and auditioned, and I landed the leading male role (much to my surprise). I then went on to have the most fun and fulfilling year of school of my life, meeting the best friends I've ever had (and still have, to this day) and discovering something in myself that I had never known before...I LOVE performing for an audience. I don't know why I'm able to open up so much on stage, but something about acting just makes me feel like I can do anything. I feel like I belong, for once. I then went on to act in my school's competing One-Act-Play, in which I received several medals for "best actor" and "all-star cast". It may have been merely high-school competition, but it's much more than I had ever expected to do with it. I very quickly fell in love with it. Then I graduated and went off to college, when I began immersing myself with film and stage (and my ex-girlfriend for two years). My parents never told me I couldn't, but they strongly discouraged me getting a degree in either of the aforementioned subjects (though I took a theater class with the department head who tried to get me to consider becoming a theater major). I saw their logic and agreed that neither degree has much stability, so I went on a different path...leading me to change my major five times from journalism to psychology, mathematics, mechanical engineering, and finally electrical engineering, where I am currently. I've always been exceptional in math (only missed one question on my math SAT's), so I decided to stick with electrical engineering because well, there is much money involved, and I'm decent at it. The problem is that I've grown to hate math over the years. I don't want to look back on my life with any regrets, but this may be one of them. When I look back on high school, my biggest regret by a mile is not doing theater sooner. And then I began to think... I'm 21 years old, and I have my whole life ahead of me. Changing my major five times has set me on a path to graduate when I'm 23, which is still young compared to the majority of college grads (I've read multiple stats that say average age is roughly 25). So I propose this question to you...should I take a break to pursue acting? I'm not saying at all that I KNOW I'm going to make it, or I KNOW what it takes, because I won't pretend to. I've done my research though, and I've concluded that if I decide to do this, I'll need to move to Los Angeles, where the cost of living is around $3000/month. I have a pretty decent savings already that would get me an apartment to start with, should I decide to follow through with it. And my plan is to get an acting coach and an agent from there, and then let the road take me wherever it will. Now, I'm not saying I'm "dropping out". If things go poorly for me, I have every intention of picking up where I left off in college. But I won't be young forever. I can always finish my degree. I had originally thought about doing this right out of high school, but I decided not to, because it might have been a phase I was going through. But it wasn't. Four years after my first play, I still do nothing but think about the possibilities and "what-if's". It doesn't leave me. And it's not that I want to be famous. I really, truthfully don't care about that. I just want to do something I enjoy, and I want to know if there's the possibility of success. The only way to know is to try. Right? The first person I went to about this is a close friend of mine. His advice was "I wouldn't do it, but you've gotta be happy with what you do". That didn't really get me anywhere. I haven't gone to my parents with this yet, because I think I know what they'll say. My dad will say hell no, but my mom will probably tell me to go for it (though I know she wouldn
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Answer:
Please do come to Los Angeles or New York and join the approximately 1,000,000 other wanna be actors in those cities. And note the other 30,000,000 people in those cities are open to offers. People do sometimes hit it big though but there are maybe 400 real acting openings each year in those cities. But if you can find a job to support yourself in the mean time, go for it. Just remember the odds are very much against you.
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Get a degree and then move. This way if the acting thing doesn't work out, you'll have something to fall back on. It will also make you marketable to find a job while you pursue acting on the side.
Advisor
Get a degree and then move. This way if the acting thing doesn't work out, you'll have something to fall back on. It will also make you marketable to find a job while you pursue acting on the side.
LateBloomer
Please do come to Los Angeles or New York and join the approximately 1,000,000 other wanna be actors in those cities. And note the other 30,000,000 people in those cities are open to offers. People do sometimes hit it big though but there are maybe 400 real acting openings each year in those cities. But if you can find a job to support yourself in the mean time, go for it. Just remember the odds are very much against you.
Chuckles
If you're good at/interested in theater, then you should go to New York rather than Los Angeles because there are simply more theater jobs there. It's your life and you have to do what feels right for you. It will be harder to return to electrical engineering that you think it will, but maybe you won't have to do that. Just keep in mind that both L.A. and NYC are FULL of wanna-be actors who never made it. They might get a small role on a TV show every third year, but they can't support themselves as actors. So you need to think about how you're going to pay the bills while you're auditioning and taking acting classes and hoping for that big break.
Amaretta
If you're good at/interested in theater, then you should go to New York rather than Los Angeles because there are simply more theater jobs there. It's your life and you have to do what feels right for you. It will be harder to return to electrical engineering that you think it will, but maybe you won't have to do that. Just keep in mind that both L.A. and NYC are FULL of wanna-be actors who never made it. They might get a small role on a TV show every third year, but they can't support themselves as actors. So you need to think about how you're going to pay the bills while you're auditioning and taking acting classes and hoping for that big break.
Amaretta
good interested theater york los angeles simply theater jobs life feels harder return electrical engineering mind nyc full wannaactors small role tv show year support actors pay bills auditioning acting classes hoping big break
Marcy
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