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How do i get my house organized!!!!?

• for the last year or so i feel like ive been LAZY!, it has been really nice though, i dont hop up and wash dishes as they get dirtied, i stopped following my daughter around cleaning up after her, if i spill something on the floor, i go get some dirty clothes to wipe it up...and yeah thank goodness i have a laundry room, 90% of my familys clothing have found new homes in there, now dont get me wrong, i eat off clean plates, and cook with clean dishes, i keep up on the laundry enuf to have clean clothes most of the time, but im 26 and have been on my own since i was 14-15, when i was younger i cleaned alot of houses, and looked after alot of my batchelor friends with cooking and cleaning to make money..and alot of the time i needed a place to stay so i would trade my friends parents cleaning and cooking for a place to stay or money. im older now and married, we bought a house a few years ago, and our previous rental was...well a tiny box of a house, so i would HAVE to clean a few times a day to make it liveable, now though our house is 2000sq/ft and a DISASTER!!, for the first couple months i would spend all day cleaning and cooking, and ive just kinda gradually slid off my routines to...well..nothing, no rhym nor reason to anything, we are having heating issues so our bathroom is always cold...so i dont like cleaning there, but i will scrub the tub out regulary, i dont do dishes, even though i have a dishwasher, i lost the booklet and i dont know how to clean out the "food trap" so it dosent work properly, its like i just dont care anymore, our bedroom started leaking a year ago, so we moved out into the living room, and it still isnt fixed...my husband is handy...just not this kinda handy, he kinda believes that the woman of the house does the cooking and cleaning, and ive caught him giving me hell here and there when it comes to me, not really putting forth the effort, it sucks, my house has gotten so bad that i dont think i will ever see the end of my laundry pile, if i do wash all the clothes, my daughter will find someway to pull all of hers out of her dresser andmy husband will change his clothes 10 times a day untill he needs all his clothes washed again, i know i dont get any help and support when it comes to the housework, but, idk what to do, my husaband makes me feel like ill change it and turn around and "do the right thing", it kinda makes me resent him, he dosent work or help with his daughter,and he just expects me to do everything. its like when you were a kid a your parents told you to clean your room, it made you not want to do it for some reason, i cant hire merry maids to help me out, i live in the mountains, i feel like throwing everything away and starting fresh, but then my husband would have to take the trash out, and he never does, if i had a truck i would haul it all to the dump, but my husband insists its his job but he never does it, am i just screwed?, or can i get organized?,

• Answer:

  I'm with you, cleaning the house is boring and tedious. Our house is always a tip, but then I have a really busy and stressful job and if my husband ever implied that it was my task to keep the house in order there would be words... If it bothers you, do something about it (one job a day). If not, then you might as well find something else to do with your life - if looking after the home is your job and you don't like it, find something else to do.