How can I become more outgoing and fun without having to drink?

Sometimes sugar helps. Like fruits, strawberries have lots of energy in them. Chocolate gives me a sugar rush and i notice I'm a bit silly when I've eaten some chocolate. You have to experiment with foods to know which ones give you the extra energy you are looking for. Actually, when I noticed I haven't drank water in a few days.. I down a glass of water and get all crazy LOL true story. The body loves water so when you deprive it for a few days then drink a glass, your body gets all this energy. Of course I don't suggest making a thing out of this, you're suppose to drink water every day, but sometimes you get so busy that you forget to drink water instead of sodas and juices. I smoke hookah and get relaxed and sometimes that opens me up to conversation. I'm rather shy at first but I open up when I see an opportunity for me to speak, not always.. but usually.

Sometimes sugar helps. Like fruits, strawberries have lots of energy in them. Chocolate gives me a sugar rush and i notice I'm a bit silly when I've eaten some chocolate. You have to experiment with foods to know which ones give you the extra energy you are looking for. Actually, when I noticed I haven't drank water in a few days.. I down a glass of water and get all crazy LOL true story. The body loves water so when you deprive it for a few days then drink a glass, your body gets all this energy. Of course I don't suggest making a thing out of this, you're suppose to drink water every day, but sometimes you get so busy that you forget to drink water instead of sodas and juices. I smoke hookah and get relaxed and sometimes that opens me up to conversation. I'm rather shy at first but I open up when I see an opportunity for me to speak, not always.. but usually.

Why not be confident with who you are? We are all different and life would be boring if we were all identical. Because I am an outgoing woman, I tend to like guys who are more quiet and reserved because we are a nice balance. It is a trait I actually find attractive and I assure you that others will as well. You become more uninhibited when you drink alcohol because alcohol affects the area of the brain that controls inhibitions...but it is also the same reason that many people act like idiots when drinking. I say, don't drink and be who you are. The people you attract will be those worth keeping in your life :)

Okay well I'm 18 and I used be the definition of shy. But for some reason being surrounded by charismatic friends just made me have the drive to feel more confident and let myself loose! I used to never say a word and now I speak my mind (respectfully). What I did was slowly work my way into it, to build my confidence. Talk more often, smile a lot more, be open with opinions, just unwind a little and loosen up. I hope this helps you :) good luck

I think if ur around fun ppl, doing fun things youll just naturally be having fun and wont even think about a drink! Good luck!

Smoke°°weed :)

Tell ur Min or trick urself and think u had two beers then you'll be fine

herion or perks work for me when i dont have alcohol.... :)

have you ever tried NOT stoping drinking...