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How to tell a bestfriend that there boyfriend doesnt love them?

  • Okay so i have this best friend. shes been going out with this boy for over a year now and she is madly in love with him, like to the point of clinginess obsession. i dont have a problem with it and i always thought as long as he makes her happy, its fine. but recently shes been moaning to me about how his not affectionate towards her anymore and he hardly says i love you but she is so blinded by her love towards him that she doesnt realise... i first had my suspicions when she started moaning about this, that he didnt really love her and he only stayed with her to avoid the hassle. today my worst suspicions were confirmed. i was told that her boyfriend had told one of his close mates that he does not love her and is only with her to avoid the hassle, exactly my theory. now i definetley know he thinks this, i am totally stuck on what to do. i understand no matter what happens my bestfriend will end up extremely hurt but what can i do to prevent her from hurting more? i thought about telling him to just do it, break up with her so they stop living in a relationship which is a lie, but could that seem like immpushing him into it? i also thought of just leaving it but i hate knowing this and not being able to tell her? especially if later on when he eventually breaks up with her and she finds out i knew but did nothing. shes my best friend and i just wanna care for her and help her out as much as i can. SO WHAT DO I DO?! Leave it and let them sort it out? or tell her? HELP!

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    Make him tell her and explain you will be there to pick her up

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It will be hard but you need to stay out of it. If you meddle in the middle then she may get angry with you. And if they end up patching it up then she will resent anything negative you said about him. When she complains to you about him, change the subject or encourage her to talk directly to him about how she feels. Be there for her when she needs a friend but do not push her into anything she is not ready to deal with.

Offer your opinions and helpful advice, but in the end it's all your friend's choices. Be hopeful though, because friends will usually take other friend's advice. You can influence her.

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