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What is wrong with this 14 yr old kid? Does he need some kind of counseling?

• (This is a serious question. Please read patiently & don’t be mean while answering.) I am a 24yr old Indian girl & I started teaching a few neighbourhood school kids when I was 15. (Just for time – pass & also I liked teaching) There are these 2 boys. I would name them X & Y over here. 'X' is 'Y's cousin. Since I don’t have a brother I consider both of them like my little brothers. Y is some what normal. It is ‘X’ that I am worried about. He was nice jolly kid but then as he grew up his behaviour slowly changed. When he was just 12 he started behaving weirdly. One night when I was teaching them there was a power cut. The emergency light wouldn’t work so I lighted a candle so that they could study as they had school tests the other day. It was a hot summer night & I was perspiring. While explaining a subject to them I noticed X was not paying attention to what I was saying instead he was staring at my perspiring neck. The next time I caught him staring at my legs. As I was at home so I was wearing only a ‘kameez’ (It is a long shirt or tunic). I felt a little weird…he was just a 12 year old…& I am an adult… but I ignored it. However I don’t teach him anymore on the pretext of having a lot of my own studies to do. But X comes to my house occassionaly as his cousin Y is still studying. (Y is a weak student & needs more guidance.) Now X is 14 & is behaving more weirdly. He has become quieter. He doesn’t look at me straight while talking but when I turn my face I find him looking at me & then immediately he looks away. Sometimes when I would talk to him he would become quite & shy & would look down. Recently his cousin (female) got married. We were invited to this big fat Indian wedding. I was wearing a lovely pink sleeveless salwar-kameez. As I was about to get into the room to meet the bride X came from behind & suddenly held me from behind & then smoothly slid his hands up my arms feeling them. I was too stunned to react! Before I could say anything he pushed me ahead holding me to meet the bride. I felt ashamed but I couldn’t say anything! I am 24 but I look younger than my age. People easily mistake me for an 18-19 year old BUT still he is just a 14 year old kid!!! & I am 24…almost 10 years old than this kid!!! It is very disturbing!!! How can a kid behave like this with some girl so much older than him? I don’t have a brother so I don’t know if kids of this age behave this weirdly. So What IS THIS KID ABNORMAL? DOES HE HAVE SOME SERIOUS ISSUES? DOES HE NEED COUNSELLING? Please give proper advice. I have asked this question in some other sections also because I want proper & helpful advice from people.

• Answer:

  same happened with me When i was 14 i too was attracted to a girl who was almost 10yrs older than me, to mention the truth it was physical as well as emotional attraction That girl was really too hot and any guy would find it difficult to resist All boys from my locality were attracted to her But as time passed i learnt many things and then realised what i did was wrong Its just because of the age and immaturity As he'll mature he'll take himself away He needs councelling But make sure hes not pushed mentally else he may agitate and make wrong decision or mistake regarding the matter Be careful while doing so You can also take his parents help, but make sure they are broad minded else the may beat him up or punish severly and in turn he may do anything stupid I am 24 myself now And we are still good friends now And i dont even touch or stare at her now