I have " daddy problems" help! ?
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Okay I'm 16 years old and I just been told / realized that I have daddy problems. My father is around in my life, but he doesn't act like a dad towards me. Mean my parents got divorced when I was little younger, I was okay with it kinda, I had hard times, but I never realized that it was affecting me. But now I do. Every since I was 14 years old , I've ALWAYS liked older men, who where way older than me. Right now I'm dating a guy who is 23 years old. He's good to me, he's kinda like a boyfriend / dad to me. Because he cares bout me, he loves me, and everything. Like my father should do, but he doesn't, he'll end up calling me or texting me good night or good morning, or see me like 3 times a month barely!!! It's terrible and I hate it sooo much! I just wish that my father was in my life more and it's just me and my mom. Which I love to death!!! she's just an amazing mother. And my dad just an asshole!! Ugh.... But anyways, my mom knows I like older guys and she hates it because I'm still a minor and everything, it's just that I like to date guys older than me, I honesty don't know why, I just do, I can't help it. I try to date guys my age but just does not work out at all. There stupid and reckless. Not all teenage boys just most. And I'm very mature for my age and everything. But ya. I think it's daddy issues I've been told, by police, my counseulor, mom, my therapist. And supposely I have problems because that ?? I don't know. I honestly don't think it's wrong. But that's the way I am. Idk if that's true that I have daddy issues? Kinda seems like it n kinda don't. But that explains why I like older men. But just hopping that someone has similar story or problem like me. Please share! Thanks :) If anything else email me! [email protected]
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We share the same experience and currently having one at the moment... You do not have ANY DADDY ISSUE/S. That is for sure! =) Maybe you disliked your dad that much but dating guys older than you, well daddy issues have nothing to do with what you feel and what your actuation is... I am a guy, 19 years old, and you know what? My current girlfriend is 11 years older than me! =) I cannot find a definite reason why I am with her but I fell in-love with this lady but I am just being myself. I love her, even at her age, I love her... Well I guess you do not have to have a REASON to love somebody right? as the bee gees song goes " baby, you don't know what it's like baby, you don't know what it's like to love somebody, to love somebody the way i love you" your destiny is written by your own hands go on and share your love to those persons who are worthy enough to receive it *but be sure of who you are dating ... most teenage boys are stupid and reckless ... yes it is definitely true because I consider myself one ... well that was before =) but as NOT ALL are like that *be sure to know your man, not only his good attitudes but also his bad side, yeah everybody has bad side, right? well it is your sole prerogative to what to do with your life. i just wanna share what I think will do you good Greetings from the Philippines
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Omg shut up or go skrew Charlie shean either way this is such a waste of time
Omg shut up or go skrew Charlie shean either way this is such a waste of time
We share the same experience and currently having one at the moment... You do not have ANY DADDY ISSUE/S. That is for sure! =) Maybe you disliked your dad that much but dating guys older than you, well daddy issues have nothing to do with what you feel and what your actuation is... I am a guy, 19 years old, and you know what? My current girlfriend is 11 years older than me! =) I cannot find a definite reason why I am with her but I fell in-love with this lady but I am just being myself. I love her, even at her age, I love her... Well I guess you do not have to have a REASON to love somebody right? as the bee gees song goes " baby, you don't know what it's like baby, you don't know what it's like to love somebody, to love somebody the way i love you" your destiny is written by your own hands go on and share your love to those persons who are worthy enough to receive it *but be sure of who you are dating ... most teenage boys are stupid and reckless ... yes it is definitely true because I consider myself one ... well that was before =) but as NOT ALL are like that *be sure to know your man, not only his good attitudes but also his bad side, yeah everybody has bad side, right? well it is your sole prerogative to what to do with your life. i just wanna share what I think will do you good Greetings from the Philippines
TAHRAQUE
"And my dad just an asshole!!" Yes you have daddy problems, the end. Also he doesnt love you, all he wants to do is f*ck you. For being "mature" you sure dont know very much.
Kelli
My dear, are you experiencing actual feelings of fatherly neglect or are you just being rebellious? This guy you're dating sounds creepy and could lead to problems down the road, and if your mom feels like it she could have him locked up. Last year my father disowned me because he abused me and I won't deny it. He has never been in my life and when I was 16 I dated a guy (then 22) I knew when we were both younger and I had a slight crush on him. Looking back it was absolutely disgusting on his part and incredibly stupid on mine. I do not use my lack of a father or my abuse to excuse ANY of my actions. It was the naivete of a 16 year old who thinks she's so mature and knows what she's doing, as I'm sure you feel now. I know what it feels like to be that age, and I know your mother has probably told you those exact words as she expressed her discomfort with you dating an older man. It is going to end, and it will likely end badly, mark my words. I know you will probably not even read this, and that you know you have all the answers, but please...do not let yourself be hurt. Do not let yourself be damaged, no matter how good this guy is to you now. You have your own brain, you can make your own choices. Do what is best for YOU. Too long, didn't read version: Do not replace your father with a boyfriend, older or not because the only void he wants to fill is between your legs.
Cherry
Im 15! You shouldn't be with older guys. I know guys are so immature now days. but wait for them they'll soon mature. I think tops 3yrs in year difference. 23 is way to old like a child molester or something. He is like perverted to be dating someone like 7yrs younger. Your under age too. Your trying to replace your dad with an older guy, but just fight and not do that. i know its hard but you can do it. Do you have a grandpa. Get closer to him. He could replace your dad in some kind of sense or just get support from your mom. I know alot of girls that only have there mom and they just get there support from her. And ignore the dumb comments at the top. there are some evill people that don't have lives. With lots of love kaley. God bless And get away from the perverted 23yr old that is like a rapist!
Kaley
My dear, are you experiencing actual feelings of fatherly neglect or are you just being rebellious? This guy you're dating sounds creepy and could lead to problems down the road, and if your mom feels like it she could have him locked up. Last year my father disowned me because he abused me and I won't deny it. He has never been in my life and when I was 16 I dated a guy (then 22) I knew when we were both younger and I had a slight crush on him. Looking back it was absolutely disgusting on his part and incredibly stupid on mine. I do not use my lack of a father or my abuse to excuse ANY of my actions. It was the naivete of a 16 year old who thinks she's so mature and knows what she's doing, as I'm sure you feel now. I know what it feels like to be that age, and I know your mother has probably told you those exact words as she expressed her discomfort with you dating an older man. It is going to end, and it will likely end badly, mark my words. I know you will probably not even read this, and that you know you have all the answers, but please...do not let yourself be hurt. Do not let yourself be damaged, no matter how good this guy is to you now. You have your own brain, you can make your own choices. Do what is best for YOU. Too long, didn't read version: Do not replace your father with a boyfriend, older or not because the only void he wants to fill is between your legs.
Cherry
Im 15! You shouldn't be with older guys. I know guys are so immature now days. but wait for them they'll soon mature. I think tops 3yrs in year difference. 23 is way to old like a child molester or something. He is like perverted to be dating someone like 7yrs younger. Your under age too. Your trying to replace your dad with an older guy, but just fight and not do that. i know its hard but you can do it. Do you have a grandpa. Get closer to him. He could replace your dad in some kind of sense or just get support from your mom. I know alot of girls that only have there mom and they just get there support from her. And ignore the dumb comments at the top. there are some evill people that don't have lives. With lots of love kaley. God bless And get away from the perverted 23yr old that is like a rapist!
Kaley
"And my dad just an asshole!!" Yes you have daddy problems, the end. Also he doesnt love you, all he wants to do is f*ck you. For being "mature" you sure dont know very much.
Blargh
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