Transfer from European high school to the U.S. high school?

Some good high-school transfer student tips for a goth girl? (Sort of Long, confusing, and weird)?

  • Hi I'm Jena, and in a few months I'm going to be a Freshman in Highschool. But before I can stress some of my questions to you, you're going to need to know a little bit about me... First being that i went to...Well, let's call it, School A, I would rather not really let out too much info. Anyway, I went to School A for my KinderGarten through 5th grade years then I went to the Middle School campus for the 6th grade that they teach at which I became Goth. After THAT I went to and still go to School B for my 7th and 8th grade years. Anyway, at School B I finished my 7th grade year and I'm about to finish my 8th grade year in a few months there as well. Although, a few months ago, Me and my family moved even though I protested for the LONGEST time, and now I'm not in School B's school district anymore, even though I still go to School B. So after I'm done with School B, I have to go BACK to School A, as expected I go to the Highschool. Okay, now here comes the confusing psychomalogical help I need. In 6th grade at School A, a kid and a few of his friends died in a car crash and the driver ran away. The kids at my school blamed me because I'm Aethiest (Still am, don't hate.) and because I had a Death Note filled with the names of my enemies and how I wanted them to die. Now if you have watched/read some good Animes, then you would know what a Death Note is. If you don't know, well in short a Death Note is a notebook that a person writes their enemies names in and how they want them to die. When someone writes those things down, then the victim dies in about a minute. With MY Death Note however, none the people that I wrote in the notebook actually died. The kids that DID DIE however were kids that went to my school but I did not know or have an opinion of. Anyway, back to the story and in other words, those kids blamed me for the deaths of those other kids and after almost 3 years having passed, i don't know if those people will still blame me and still hate me. (I know the other goths and the like will RESPECT THE SHYT out of me) . So here comes the REAL questions. Question 1: Will those kids still hate me? Question 2: What steps or procedures should I take to ensure my safety and maybe some forgiveness even though I didn't do anything wrong? Question 3: Are they going to try to hurt me? Because the kids at School A can get REALLY violent and grudge-holding. Question 4: What should I do so i can get used to going to School A again? Question 5: My parents and brother don't know about the school incident, so i need to do things that are within my power without them finding out. Question 6: Where should i go so I can get some cute and sexy goth clothes? I'm sorry, I know this isn't related to the situation at hand, but I need to get some new ones due to my growth spurt. I'm LITERALLY 2 inches from being 6 feet tall so i need to go to a store that has sizes in tall. I've tried Spencer's Gifts but they just sell novelty T-shirts, Mini skirts and Corsets. I've also tried Hot Topic but they similar things, granted they have a clearance section with some good shirts that i like, but i kind of want to get some clothes that are less poseur-esque and more, goth/emo/etc. I live in Fort Worth Texas and this would be GREATLY APPRECIATED. Thank you for reading and hopefully answering, Jena. =)

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    I got in trouble for something similar, except my parents were fundies and when I "went Punk" they sent me to Tranquility Bay. Nuff about that. When I came back and went to UMD for med school, there were some kids who knew me as "that guy who killed Kevin". Now I suppose I need to say what happened so prepare yourself: I KILLED HIM. JK lol, he bullied me out in my 'hood whenever I could sneak out, he'd throw rocks at me. One day he was throwing rocks out of a moving van (a van rolling down a hill, not that other type of moving van that your put furniture in.) He threw a rock too hard and fell out of the door, hit his head on the pavement and died. So of course, the only witnesses were Kevin's friends, and at first they shouted "Ian knocked out Kevin", because I guess they didn't know he was dead. After he was declared [dead] his friends told the other kids in the 'hood that I had killed Kevin by smashing him in the head with rock repeatedly, which is false. He, along with many kids from my town, went to UMD, so of course they tried to do things to me but you'll find that a student who attacks another student while in college is usually expelled, no questions asked. They don't have to let you stay if you're disrupting its functions. High school, however, that's different. But if they do try to start something, just tell them that you weren't the one driving the car, tell them you're too young to drive, so it's impossible that you were the driver.

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I got in trouble for something similar, except my parents were fundies and when I "went Punk" they sent me to Tranquility Bay. Nuff about that. When I came back and went to UMD for med school, there were some kids who knew me as "that guy who killed Kevin". Now I suppose I need to say what happened so prepare yourself: I KILLED HIM. JK lol, he bullied me out in my 'hood whenever I could sneak out, he'd throw rocks at me. One day he was throwing rocks out of a moving van (a van rolling down a hill, not that other type of moving van that your put furniture in.) He threw a rock too hard and fell out of the door, hit his head on the pavement and died. So of course, the only witnesses were Kevin's friends, and at first they shouted "Ian knocked out Kevin", because I guess they didn't know he was dead. After he was declared [dead] his friends told the other kids in the 'hood that I had killed Kevin by smashing him in the head with rock repeatedly, which is false. He, along with many kids from my town, went to UMD, so of course they tried to do things to me but you'll find that a student who attacks another student while in college is usually expelled, no questions asked. They don't have to let you stay if you're disrupting its functions. High school, however, that's different. But if they do try to start something, just tell them that you weren't the one driving the car, tell them you're too young to drive, so it's impossible that you were the driver.

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