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What things are the best thing to eat (and avoid) before an exam?

I try to help people, but I just end up being the guy everyone likes to avoid, why is that?

  • When I was brought up I was told what was right and wrong. Now that I'm older, I tell my younger sisters and my MOM the same thing. Yet, they all give me crap about it, and insist their way is right, or insists that it doesn't matter if they do wrong. For example, my sister wastes food. I tell her why that's not right. Or she'll touch all the pieces of bread before picking her own, leaving the rest of the loaf tainted. (She doesn't wash her hands, even after taking a poop) So I tell her why that is wrong, and she just argues that it doesn't matter. I tell my sister's it's wrong to talk back to my Dad, and they just talk back to me and tell me off. We were eating dinner for a birthday, and before the birthday person was even close to being served, my sister just dives in and starts eating her food. I nudge here and tell her it's polite to wait for the birthday person to start eating, especially since they were the ones serving! My other sister heard me, and decided to ignore me, and just dove in herself. Same with litter, my mom leaves cigarette butts all over the place, but I try my hardest to make this place nice aesthetic wise. The other day my sister was throwing ROCKS into my dogs mouth for her to catch. I demanded she stopped immediately before my dog chipped a tooth. She told me off and kept doing it, then went to my mom about it, and then my mom told me off, and she herself joined my sister in throwing rocks into the dogs mouth. These are just a FEW examples. This is what I have to put up with everyday. And so when my Dad comes to me and asks me why I'm so edgy all the time, it's hard for me to explain, because if I tell him why, he'll just say I need to relax. But honestly, I can't tolerate to see some of these things happen, and if saying and doing the right thing means that I'll be the "edgy" guy in the family that everyone likes to avoid, then I don't mind that. And as a result, people end up treating me like crap. If I'm in the kitchen cooking, my sister tries to butt me out of the way, or starts to act all passive aggressive by slamming things around. Or my sisters don't even acknowledge my physical being. If I'm in their way, they just bump into me like I'm not even there! Or if they're in my way, I say excuse me, and they're slow to move if they even move at all!!!! How would this make you feel? So I told my Dad This is why I just keep to myself and mind my own business, but he said I need to interact more and loosen up. Well, I do my best. But why people label me as a PITA, baffles me. Would you eat bread after someone who crapped and wiped without washing touched it? Would you just sit quietly as someone threw away food you bought and cooked? Would you just sit and watch your dog catch rocks in it's mouth? Or not mind your own family littering in your yard? that would be nice to set up somewhere else, but after all I do love my family. I do all that out of love because I want the best for them and everyone. Just as I don't want to catch germs from someone sneezing and coughing onto the keyboard, I wouldn't want anyone else to either ya know? Would be nice to move next door or something though....

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    Henry you have a strange, rude, unhygienic and nasty family. I think you should leave home and set up house somewhere else. Also all your questions are very similar, but I guess you know that already. So who were you before you were Henry ? I noticed that some of the other characters on Senior Citz have disappeared - are you one of them reincarnated ?

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Henry you have a strange, rude, unhygienic and nasty family. I think you should leave home and set up house somewhere else. Also all your questions are very similar, but I guess you know that already. So who were you before you were Henry ? I noticed that some of the other characters on Senior Citz have disappeared - are you one of them reincarnated ?

Jean

Your story is absolutely...unusual! Your sister, well, she is really the worst!!! How can she be so disgusting? (I am talking about her personal hygiene) and stupid( I am talking about what she did to your dog). Seriously, leave any sort of kindness with her (she doesn't know it) and start acting! Foe example, when you are eating and she touches everything with her dirty hands, just walk away, take your food and go away. If they ask, just tell them that you do not want to eat with her doing like that. And do not come back, unless things change. When she plays bad with your dog , well, call him and walk away. Do not even explain, do not say anything, try to go away. what i am saying is , ignore your sister as long as it is necessary. She shows no interest in you, your feelings..just pay her back, avoiding troubles. Leave her alone. She thinks to be important if you are always next to her,telling her what to do. Let her be as she wants to be, but without you. I know your sister is important for you, but she needs help. Words doesn't work with her? Well, do something, take your distance from such a selfish and poor behaviour!!!

artifa

Your story is absolutely...unusual! Your sister, well, she is really the worst!!! How can she be so disgusting? (I am talking about her personal hygiene) and stupid( I am talking about what she did to your dog). Seriously, leave any sort of kindness with her (she doesn't know it) and start acting! Foe example, when you are eating and she touches everything with her dirty hands, just walk away, take your food and go away. If they ask, just tell them that you do not want to eat with her doing like that. And do not come back, unless things change. When she plays bad with your dog , well, call him and walk away. Do not even explain, do not say anything, try to go away. what i am saying is , ignore your sister as long as it is necessary. She shows no interest in you, your feelings..just pay her back, avoiding troubles. Leave her alone. She thinks to be important if you are always next to her,telling her what to do. Let her be as she wants to be, but without you. I know your sister is important for you, but she needs help. Words doesn't work with her? Well, do something, take your distance from such a selfish and poor behaviour!!!

artifa

wow it sounds like you need to move away from these people [ and take your dog]

wow it sounds like you need to move away from these people [ and take your dog]

David,

Henry, I think we all tried to answer your extremely lengthy questions to the best of our abilities. Most of us are not independently wealthy either and we still have problems to tackle every day. It's just life and a great outlook helps. It is always your choice.

Piscesblue60

Just be polite, nobody wants unsolicited "help" by being told what to do. Show a sense of humor and keep all conversations civil, no matter what the others say. You are coming across as controlling , picky and downright unpleasant. Take a deep breath and chill out :-)

Kira

Henry, I think we all tried to answer your extremely lengthy questions to the best of our abilities. Most of us are not independently wealthy either and we still have problems to tackle every day. It's just life and a great outlook helps. It is always your choice.

Piscesblue60

Just be polite, nobody wants unsolicited "help" by being told what to do. Show a sense of humor and keep all conversations civil, no matter what the others say. You are coming across as controlling , picky and downright unpleasant. Take a deep breath and chill out :-)

Kira

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