What is wrong with this 14 yr old kid? Does he need some kind of counseling?

It seems like he has a crush on you. THAT part is normal.. i mean I'm 15 years old and have a crush on my 35y/o teacher and also a girl my age (but I'm not really shy to them) His shyness is also normal BUT him liking his cousin?! YOU? not normal. He don't need counseling, though. EDIT: Oh, really? Oh, then never mind! Just seems like a harmless crush then. As long as he's not trying to force sexual things on you, i believe you should do nothing. Just let... "X" keep liking you. nothing abnormal about this situation. :D

It seems like he has a crush on you. THAT part is normal.. i mean I'm 15 years old and have a crush on my 35y/o teacher and also a girl my age (but I'm not really shy to them) His shyness is also normal BUT him liking his cousin?! YOU? not normal. He don't need counseling, though. EDIT: Oh, really? Oh, then never mind! Just seems like a harmless crush then. As long as he's not trying to force sexual things on you, i believe you should do nothing. Just let... "X" keep liking you. nothing abnormal about this situation. :D

It's normal! Because you were with him since he was little he developed a little more then a crush on you. If you want to date him it's fine! 10 years isn't THAT much. But if you don't let him down easy. It's normal nothing is wrong with him!

It's normal! Because you were with him since he was little he developed a little more then a crush on you. If you want to date him it's fine! 10 years isn't THAT much. But if you don't let him down easy. It's normal nothing is wrong with him!

He is in the midst of puberty - and his male hormones are raging from one end of the spectrum to the other - trying to figure out where to settle down. This can cause all kinds of issues for teens in puberty as there are many changes taking place within his body - and he must learn how to deal with them in a positive manner. Keep clear of him - or you could ge accused of child molestation.

He is in the midst of puberty - and his male hormones are raging from one end of the spectrum to the other - trying to figure out where to settle down. This can cause all kinds of issues for teens in puberty as there are many changes taking place within his body - and he must learn how to deal with them in a positive manner. Keep clear of him - or you could ge accused of child molestation.

look the point is just because you don't take things wrong way that does not mean that others will also do so..... usually in our "Typical Society" boys at this age are badly affected by their company....i mean its totally the impact of the group he is there with just keep track when he is around you,that none of his friends are present.....may be he's doing this to show them(the act he did in wedding) moreover show him that you are aware about his weird thoughts and give him that stare(that girls usually give) he is a kid so its all upon you...if you ignore this he may take it otherwise and go on to do these things and yes stop considering him your brother.....he is a wild **** .... and yes be careful and don't allow such people in your house.......just get a bit more strict and take some action against it speak to him ..tell him directly or indirectly that YOU DON'T LIKE IT

I think it is normal due to adolescent age. I think there is never a friendship between a boy and a girl (especially the boy looks only sex in a girl-age does not make a difference here). just avoid the boy. he will do same thing with others if he gets a chance, what he did with you. please read the following. Peer groups are especially important during adolescence, a period of development characterized by a dramatic increase in time spent with peers and a decrease in adult supervision.Adolescents also associate with friends of the opposite sex much more than in childhood and tend to identify with larger groups of peers based on shared characteristics. Peer groups offer members the opportunity to develop various social skills, such as empathy, sharing and leadership. Peer groups can have positive influences on an individual, for instance on academic motivation and performance, but they can also have negative influences and lead to an increase in experimentation with drugs, drinking, vandalism, and stealing.Susceptibility to peer pressure increases during early adolescence, peaks around age 14, and declines thereafter. During early adolescence, adolescents often associate in cliques, exclusive, single-sex groups of peers with whom they are particularly close. Towards late adolescence, cliques often merge into mixed-sex groups as teenagers begin romantically engaging with one another. Typically, in schools, the most popular boys would participate in achievement-oriented activities, which were highly competitive and aggressive such as, athletics. Likewise, the most popular girls would participate in the most interesting social activities, ranging from skiing to late-night parties. Of course, girls who engaged in these activities had to be physically attractive to compete for the opposite sex's attention. Thus, it became common to attribute competitiveness to boys and attractiveness with girls in clique groups. These small friend groups break down even further as socialization becomes more couple-oriented. Despite the common notion that cliques are an inherently negative influence, they may help adolescents become socially acclimated and form a stronger sense of identity.

I think it is normal due to adolescent age. I think there is never a friendship between a boy and a girl (especially the boy looks only sex in a girl-age does not make a difference here). just avoid the boy. he will do same thing with others if he gets a chance, what he did with you. please read the following. Peer groups are especially important during adolescence, a period of development characterized by a dramatic increase in time spent with peers and a decrease in adult supervision.Adolescents also associate with friends of the opposite sex much more than in childhood and tend to identify with larger groups of peers based on shared characteristics. Peer groups offer members the opportunity to develop various social skills, such as empathy, sharing and leadership. Peer groups can have positive influences on an individual, for instance on academic motivation and performance, but they can also have negative influences and lead to an increase in experimentation with drugs, drinking, vandalism, and stealing.Susceptibility to peer pressure increases during early adolescence, peaks around age 14, and declines thereafter. During early adolescence, adolescents often associate in cliques, exclusive, single-sex groups of peers with whom they are particularly close. Towards late adolescence, cliques often merge into mixed-sex groups as teenagers begin romantically engaging with one another. Typically, in schools, the most popular boys would participate in achievement-oriented activities, which were highly competitive and aggressive such as, athletics. Likewise, the most popular girls would participate in the most interesting social activities, ranging from skiing to late-night parties. Of course, girls who engaged in these activities had to be physically attractive to compete for the opposite sex's attention. Thus, it became common to attribute competitiveness to boys and attractiveness with girls in clique groups. These small friend groups break down even further as socialization becomes more couple-oriented. Despite the common notion that cliques are an inherently negative influence, they may help adolescents become socially acclimated and form a stronger sense of identity.