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Where can my friend and I go for President's Week vacation?

Would you let your (new) boybriend go on a 2-week vacation in Barbados with a female friend/coworker?

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    Let? Do you own him? As far as letting him he is free to do what he wants. Agreeing with it now that is the question, I personally would not feel comfortable with it. In fact in a marriage for a husband to be alone with another woman it constitutes adultery. This is a hard one though because he will resent you if he doesn't go for you. And on the flip side you will resent him if he goes. I would probably just break it off with him because it sounds to me like he is not done exploring himself yet.

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Would I let him? Do I have a choice? Two very different questions. Number one: You can't control anyone. If they want to go, they will go. And if you are trying to control someone, then you aren't someone I would want to be hooked up with. Number two: If it's a business trip, then that's OK. If it's not a mandatory business trip, then drop him like a hot potato.

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Let him? That's not up to me that's on him, but I sure as heck wouldn't be driving him to tha airport or picking him up. I'd be gone. This is not about trust this is about respect and if he goes he has no respect fpr me or our relationship.

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What happens in Barbados, stays in Barbados.

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See, the thing is that I'm the friend. At first, I didn't see why/what everybody else was fussing about. Even if I do find him VERY nice and attractive, knowing that he has a girlfriend puts him off limits (I still have some small principles ;) How ever, I am starting to ask myself what kind of girlfriend he has.... either she is very liberal or he hasn't told her the whole story....Thanks a bunch for your answers!

Karine

I'm not one to boss my significant other around, so it wouldn't be a matter of "allowing/disallowing" her from going on vacation, but I certainly would voice my opinion that if they go on the trip together, it would put the relationship in jeopardy. Some may argue that it's just a trust issue and if you trust the person you're with, it's no problem. However, in actuality, trust doesn't factor into it when you're making an active choice to vacation with one other person and you don't choose the person you're dating/seeing/etc. So, would I "let" this person go on vacation with their coworker? Sure, go for it. Just don't expect a welcome mat at the door upon return.

psych31mwo says call me Mark

HELL no!

Anonymous

No! You want your head examing if you accept that.Never ask a cat if he likes milk my friend.

Mac

Business travel, separate rooms is Ok

LEO

Not unless his female friend is a lesbian AND very unattractive!

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