How can i prove to my boyfriend that he can trust me?

Im having trouble convincing my boyfriend that he can trust me, and i need help. How do I prove that, and my love for him so that he's really impressed?

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    Do you think of yourself as trustworthy? Do you know you love him enough? Do you know him well? Do you "send" those feeling outside of your space? (are you an open book?) These are questions for your space. If in your space you have the feelings, and are sending them cleanly, then there is nothing more you can do to MAKE him know. The best you can do is learn his version of "if you do this then you probably love me", practice that, and hope to never make a mistake... a lot of effort… If he can feel you and then it does not need proving, and if he can't then it will always need proving. You can't prove "until he feels it" because proof is a social thing and feelings are a personal thing. No amount of information, behavior patterns or social correctness can compensate for the actual feeling / sensing of love. I've spent my life trying to prove my love / trust to others who can't see it… and have always failed – I don't recommend that path :-) On the other hand, for those who feel it / see it directly all it takes is an instant to KNOW, and they never need proof...

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you need to let time do the work. that's the only thing that builds trust between two people. i was just like your boyfriend two months ago. i'm a girl though, so...it might be different. trust is subjective i guess. i couldn't and didn't want to trust anyone because everyone that i had trusted had let me down and hurt me really badly. but then i met this guy, and it took about two months for me to trust him, but i do now, and he's wonderful. i think it's that i know he won't hurt me. so good luck. let time handle it.

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First you need to trust yourself. If you can learn to trust yourself, then your boyfriend will recognize that you are a trustworthy person. Of course, if you can trust yourself, he will learn to trust you. But I might add that whether one trusts or not is up to the person who is doing it, not the person who is the object. It's really his issue if he trusts you, not your issue.

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