My husband is constantly degrading me. He has been for years. I do not work I am a stay at home mother. I am a nursing student. We have 2 children together. He always calls me horrible names Bi***, Wh***, loser, etc... I feel like he is right. Someone hel

This is called verbal abuse.He has no right.Trouble is, when you hear these things for so long part of you starts to believe it though this is wrong.You deserve better.You are doing a good job.I'm tempted to say say to him 'I will not be spoken to like this'.He may get angry tho.Seek advice from a women's helpline and/or shelter.

no hes not right he has a small brian to be honest with you life is short and youd be better off without him people like your husband is putting you down and thats not good for you hes doing it becouse he can lose him and move on people like you are frightend to move on but some day you will so better now then later .ps hope this helps

Just few words...it is not as easy as you think to leave the abuser. You hope for some change, for better future...I know. I have been there for last 21 years. I should have left the first time he called me "garbage". I studied when we were younger, got my BA but never used it cause we had 5 children together so I stayed home watching them. My husband is smart, attractive, works hard to provide for his family, for their Xboxes, TVs, nikes and what not. When it comes to me he is always unsatisfied with the way I do things. Always complaining....I might have made some mistakes in raising the kids, spoiling them, but this is not an excuse to be called names. And I have heard it all, from mf to "you belong in toilet"...yes, these are painful things to hear and sometimes I wonder if maybe I do belong in garbage. Who knows? He's been saying it for years to me, disrespecting me. When I tell him (I do stand up, always did) I don't like it, he says "then change your behavior" or "you provoke me", or "I do it to wake you up"...are these legit reasons to degrade your spouse? I know the answer to that but feel helpless and what am I to do with no work experience, 5 children ages 17-6? I am waiting but not sure for what.

Just think of this...do you want your kids to treat thier future spouses like this? Think of how it makes you feel, think of what you are teaching them. You are taking a good step in life. It may seem hard but unfortunetly people like this are hard to change. Don't do the superwoman stunt and try to defend yourself from him-it will get violent, it did for me. Just plan things out for you and your boys and move on.

How are u a loser? You are a wife and a mom,you are a nursing student and you put with him. You are not even close. Dont listen. You dont NEED that. This kind of abuse escalates... Nothing is impossible and u can be strong on your own but u need to be a lil strong right now for u and ur kids and stand up to him and take huge step and leave.

Divorce him. Don't even try to salvage anything at this point. It's basically hopeless. Divorce him and don't look back. Then, you'll regain who you were.

I actually got choked up when I read this. Your husband sounds like an ass. You are an enabler. You are allowing him to abuse you. Tell him to stop and change his ways. Good luck and God help you.

im going through the same thing...im sorry that you have to go through this...no one should ever have to go through this...

why do you feel like her is right??? I am sure his name calling is very unhealthy for both you and your children... I think he is the loser.