My ex still loves me everyone tells him not to give up on me..i dont plan on going back to him i love someone else my ex just doesnt get it,i'm waiting 4 that someone i love no matter what people say how can i stop my ex from loving me and get over me?

Stop talking to him. Don't answer his phone calls or his e-mails. Delete him from any social networking sites that you have him on, and block and delete him from any IM services you have him on. It's okay to change your e-mail address and/or use your privacy settings. Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know because they might be him. Hopefully that will give him a hint. As for what other people tell him, don't worry about them. Are they really worth talking to if they're trying to get your ex to hope for more?

it makes me wonder why you went out with him in the first place. he needs to stop acting like a wimp. youre doing nothing wrong. he needs time awy from you.

You can't unless he is willing to forget you on his own or when he finds a new gf.

Just cut all ties and when you do have to have contact with him keep it short and curt. I can't tell you how many times I thought I could remain friends with an ex and it always ends up that they feel there is still a chance.

You cant stop someone loving you, but you can only control your own actions.. Just cut ties, its better that way rather drag it out.. Create the boundries be in control.. x

You cannot have any type of relationship with him right now. He needs to get over you and as long as you respond to him or talk to him, he will still think there is a chance. Make him go cold turkey - I am in the same situation as him and I know that is the only way to get over you / her.

have a one on one conversation with him and tell him how you feel about him. tell him lightly though..you have to be sensative because the person might get really hurt.

I'm in the same situation actually. My ex almost got me pregnant, then when he thought he really had gotten me pregnant he ran off and dumped me cuz he was scared. He really messed up. So when I figured out I wasn't pregnant I let him know that he had really broke my heart. He was sorry, but I didn't trust him anymore. So I went and found me a really nice guy and fell in love with him. But recently my ex has been texting me telling me that he loves me more than anything and that he wants me back. Apparently I'm everything to him. But I really am deeply in love with my boyfriend. I can't trust my ex, but he is a good friend, and I'm still in love with him in a way, and I've never met any guy that turned me so easily as he can. It's dangerous for me to be around him because he can so easily bend my will. But if he can't be with me he doesn't even want to be my friend, and that kills me, because he is my best friend, I've known him for so many years, I confide in him, he was my first, and he is very special. I don't want to lose him, but I can't stand the thought of losing my bf either. I love him. I just want my ex as a friend...but he's killing my heart. I know how you feel quite honestly, and I'm sorry I don't know wat to tell u because I haven't found a good answer yet either. but I can relate...

Well you can't MAKE your ex do anything. If he rly doesn't get it...he won't know until you tell it to him straight up as harsh as that may be. Unless you wanna go the other route...start dating someone else and put your ex aside...usually once they say you've moved on and time passes they'll get the hint. Telling him upfront may not go too well, depending on how he takes it. But if you don't want the poor guy to be totally clueless and be waiting for you, you need to let him know. He may be glad that he can now move on with his life. Wait it out is always an option too. Take in account your ex's reaction and what works best for you.