2 the guys! When u say ur confused about ur feelings right now n its 2 an ex but u go n say things n do things that u used 2 do n say when dating..wat r u guys thinking n y r u doing that..n wat should the ex do, should we ignore it as nothing or respond

lol u have first understand that us guys are not all the same mentally. and it's not like girls are the only ones that need their space and get emotional. guys are no different so if they're having problems don't always expect them to flick them off like it's no big deal. One thing to keep in mind: GUYS CANNOT TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS IN A WAY ANYONE CAN UNDERSTAND BECAUSE THEY SUCK AT IT SO THEY USUALLY JUST DON'T. If a guy says he's confused, it's because he is, and he just doesn't want to talk about it because he wouldn't know what to say. give em space and time.

Sounds like he wants to keep you on stand-by, while he's out lookin'. When I was dating, I wouldn't do this to an ex because I didn't want to piss her off and burn my bridges. Some of my ex's are still good friends.

guys do it because there is no commitment involved. (trust me i've been in this situation twice) don't do it. tell him that you will if you two are together, but you respect yourself to much to do it.

Generally we're thinking . . . . . "yeah the sky is really nice shade of blue" or perhaps, "Hmmm, yep I think I need a bottom end rebuild with a twin turbo. Perhaps a good slip diff will help." What I can assure is that mostly we are not thinking about what has just been said to us. No offense meant that just the way we are.