Why Are Some People So Controlling In Relationships?

Why are people in relationships so possessive? I mean they have to chain you down to the point where you have to come to them for everything. Do you think that if they were not so controlling that the relationship might actually last?

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    Absolutely. It should be flattering, because they like you enough, to want to have you all to themselves, but it's also disappointing, because it's the person's insecurity shining through. Yes, the relationship would be 100X more likely to work if they weren't so controlling and possessive.

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Well possessiveness is deeply rooted in insecurity. So in short form that is why *some* people in relationships become possessive of the other person. Is this right? No! Should you tolerate someone being possessive over you? No! But it does happen! And absoulotely relationships would last much much longer if possessiveness was not an issue!

Angel36

I agree with JenJen..... If you are TRUELY in love with somone ...besides health, family and friends , the only thing that should matter is the one your with.... I'm sorry But I love my girlfriend with all that I am and She is mi vida(life)mi corazon(heart)and Im always wanting , needing ,and loving her. Sounds over the top but hell yea thats show I feel.

mega

Honestly ? I like being chained down, and you'll never keep me without being able to control me....I am a submissive women, and without the dominance there is no relationship.

Jen-Jen

they don't want their heart to be broken

manihateashychick

they don't want their heart to be broken.

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