Your husband promised to stop watching prono and visiting adult websites when you started dating years ago. You find out that he has been at live video chat websites, chatting, and saving pictures and video, what would you do? How would you confront him?

If he knew from the start that it wasn't something you wanted in your life then he has two choices-move on or stop. And he promised you he would stop and just continued to do this behind you're back...he took your choice away from you and something like that infuriates me. I can't say leave him, but I would def take something like this very serious. How can you trust him now???

First, ask why does he have the need for such a thing, yes I like porn, but anytime I'm in a relationship I don't have the need to have it around, if he doesn't say anything about it, or just doesn't agree to stop looking at it, I'd suggest a trial separation and see what he says then, either that or both of you need to attend a marital therapist or whatever you call it.

tell him to take his addiction to god,it may just save his marriage and not end up like mines with my wife hating me and trying to divorce me

he needs to go to a therapist for his pornography addiction. your husband is a sick man, he needs help.

I'd just find someone hotter...

I would not have been able to contain my anger. I would have had to leave, had this situation occurred, unless and until he had been in therapy for a long period of time.

Well he was doing that before. Here is the deal, marriage is tough because it is between two imperfect people. Talk it over and find out where the two of you stand. Maybe he needs your love and forgiveness or maybe he is somewhere else. Anyway, we all fall short of perfection and and many times we just need a friend that will help us.