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Is love worth the effort?

A guy wrote me saying he isn't sure if he is gay anymore. it said he wants me but isn't willing to put the effort to keep me. & that he just wants to be friends but i told him i love him after & he said love u too. i want him to know what love is. help me

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    Just wait. Things will work themselves out, whether that be him really being gay, or him finding himself straight and wanting to be with you. BUT, you have to TRUST him when he tells you he isnt going to put effort into keeping you and just wants to be FRIENDS... Keep it at being friends...and dont push it to be something that it isnt. Best of luck. ~+~

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Sweetie, if he's gay then you shouldn't push him to like you and be straight. Respect him. Even though he is doubting it, don't be pushy. Let him figure his feelings out first and then act when he's sure he actually wants to be with you and is straight, or atleast not interested in guys at the moment. And I'm sure he knows what love is :)

Ilyena

He he...I gotta snicker at this one...

Mephistopheles

Wait, are you telling me that being gay isn't a genetic predisposition?

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