Am I just his booty call is he just using me for sex? cause he says we're seeing each other and i asked him what is HIS meaning of seeing he says a lil commitment and we both can see other people but I would never do that. I'm very confused

You should be. What would the commitment be then? If you feel you are being used in this way, do a lil test! Stop taking his calls for awhile, then after several, answer and see what his response would be. I wouldnt lie and say you were out with another guy, especially if you really like him. Just apologize and say you had been ver busy....his reply should tell you a little more! Maybe?...good start though, without pressuring him.

Therein lies the real reason why folk used to hold off on having sex until marriage, that way to doing things lead to far less of these kinds of situations. YOU need to set a workable boundary within your relationships, a point where sex takes place because you are assured that you are in a committed, monogamous relationship. And then you need to make it clear with potential mates where sex and relationship starts. IF you already did tell him, prior to reaching this point, what your expectations where, why it is that sex was ok with him (assuming you had sex because you think sex should be within the confines of a committed relationships) back then, then the problem is his and most likely your best bet is to dump him and find someone else who will consider your stance on monogamy. Because frankly this particular subject is a loaded one and eventually leads to cheating within the relationship.