What does if mean if my friends boyfriend is always hitting on me. he touches me all the time, even when shes around. i know she notices and people say stuff to her but she never says anything to me. i dont know how to say something to him or her.

I would tell them both together that it makes you uncomfortable. This way there is no misunderstanding or no he said, she said crap

It means he's a real jerk ;{o Tell him if he touches you again you will tell your friend,& he doesn't deserve her.I wouldn't bother telling her she will obviously turn it around on you as she's been turning a blind eye so far.It will just get him to stop.Also when he's around why not make yourself scarce.No need to spend time w/ her when he's around.Good luck...

I think your friend has huge self-esteem issues for a start, any man of mine acted like that towards a friend i would kick his head in first time i saw it lol But if she has seen him do this, and people have even told her, why hasnt she said anything to you? Is it because she thinks you are responding? ..seems you need a conversation with her :O) The guy is quite clearly a dingbat lol, why would either of you want a bloke who went on like that trying to play friends off against each other :O) Men come and go, friendship means more in my experience..:O)

Just say it straight out."Don't touch me","I don't like when you do that"or my favorite,"STOP THAT SHIT!"I would not worry about coming across as rude.He's the one crossing the line,so say something!

He touches you uninvited and you permit it. You need to get a little better at demanding respect. Try saying "will you stop touching me!"

She should not say anything to you. You are the victim here. You are not doing anything wrong. You never stated, in your question, if you like his advances or not. I am going to assume that you do not like them. I would talk to both of them. Tell them that you enjoy hanging out with them, however, you do not want him touching you. Once they both know you do not like it, then he should stop. Also, she shouldn't ignore it anymore if things continue. You have to be direct or they will assume you do not care if he touches you. Good luck!

a kick to the nuts usually works but you should tell your friend otherwise she may see it as you liking it and assume wrong things... don't let your friendship be ruined because of this be honnest with her, thats what friends do

Tell him not to touch you and tell your friend you feel uncomfortable with him flirting with you.

Pepper spray him!