How can you control jealousy over your boyfriend?

I dont know why i am so jealous. by boyfriend does nothing to make me feel this way. I get mad at him when he goes somewhere an a girl is there, when there are half naked girls on tv even though he cant control that, my jealousy even mak

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    Im sorry for you. I think that the problem is in you and not in him if he hasnt ever given you a reason to doupt him. I totally understand you tho, coz i use to be exactly like that with my husband.. am still a bit but not as much anymore. I guess you just have to build a trust for him and for you. Know that no matter what girls he see s, he chose you for a reason. You arent (or maybe you r) the most beautifull girl in the world but you just might be in his eyes. Just think about yourself..do you cheat on him every chance you get? Do you fancy other men when you see them? If not, why do you think he would be like that with women? And if you do, maybe its just your own desires making you imagine he would do the same.. Hope that helped... you just have to trust him because if not, you havent got bright future ahead of you.

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Just try to work on finding yourself and learning to really get to know yourself. You can do things to help your appearance like exercising which really helps out with stress and depression, makes your skin look great and keeps you healthy. You can do little things for yourself like taking care of your nails, face, teeth, and hair. It really helps you feel better about yourself. If you want you can email me and i know a lot of face and hair masks you can make at home they are really fun to do and addicting! :) also make a journal and get all the bad things out, or if you have good friend just talk with her about it. It will really make you feel better. I know exactly how u feel because im going threw that too i know he is great and awesome, its just that i've never been exposed to a great trusting realationship. So its hard for me to feel right when nothings going on. My mother and father cheated on eachother their whole marriage. My mom was so jealous and i know i get it from her! lol but im really trying hard to be positive and keep my mind off of these evil thoughts! :) you can do it because i know im slowly getting over this and you can too good luck to you! :)

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Your just afraid he might think different of your appearance I get the same way. You just need him to re assure you and maybe even hold you tight while watching a movie it would make you feel more secure. Your afraid of being neglected later on. If he does this it would be better.

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You have a serious problem.......

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