If you were a jerk and thought your daughter was dating a loser what would you say to her (in front of the guy). Say you're a lawyer and the guy is a "cool guy" type that smokes and drinks and didn't go to college and you want to make them both feel bad?

I would not be happy that she was dating a smoker. Otherwise, if he a "cool guy" why would I want both of them to feel bad? I would let her find out for herself IF he is a loser. Nothing I could say would get that across to her like direct experience.

say nothing and dont be so high and mighty. the job a person does is not all that they are.

I don't try to control other people by manipulating their feelings, so I wouldn't know.

This would all depend on their ages.

I wouldn't say anything unless I felt my daughter was in danger. Life lessons can only be learned from life experiences. If you do not allow her to learn from her mistakes she will keep repeating them.

maybe you should let her date the looser,they break up she learns some life lessons.except my daughter is now 23 they are still toghether,showing you are against it just pushes them toghether,hard to keep the mouth quiet and say something that afterwads you want to cut your tounge out or kill him (which would feel much better LOL )