How do i retrieve my daughters msn messenger conversations? i can access her account but have no idea how i read what she is writing or what people are writing to her. She is only 12 years old. Please help.

Problem is it asks you if you want to save conversations. If she said no then you have no way of retrieving them. You can install a parental keylogger to monitor all of them from now on. Other then that if it is enabled click File then view message history

Not all clients keep logs, and many have it as an option that can be disabled. However, if you can't trust her to watch out for herself or to at least turn to you for guidance when something seems wrong then you might want to review history and see where you went wrong as a parent. By the time I was 12, I had a decent dose of common sense and the ability to keep myself safe without any parental snooping. Maybe your daughter should have been raised like I was.

Oh c'mon.. trust is much more important. How would you feel in her shoes?

Go into tools, options, messages and tick where it says "keep a record of my conversations".

respect her privacy dont try and read her messages you will loose trust and she will be more secretive

just sit behind her as she types and read everything