How can you make the most of your college experience?

I'm considering going to college at the Univ of Auburn, but I'm really shy, and worried about how people say college is nothing but a big party anymore, anybody want to give me a little taste of their experience or advice to make me feel better about it?

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    Do something you ARE scared to do, face your fears, they are never as strong as you think they are. Join a frat or sorority, that may help with shyness. I was very shy in school, but I was determined to not let my shyness (fear) rule me in college. I forced myself to walk up to people i didn't know, and talk to them. Just start talking about music and ask them who they like? Listen for them to say something personal, and tell them how much you love it. People love to talk about themselves. Where is Auburn?

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You don't have to be anyone you are not. There are a lot of different people at colleges. You have choices about whom you hang out with, and what you do. My advice is to be yourself, join a couple of clubs you are most interested in, take classes towards a degree, and one just for fun if possible. I went to school, and never once went to a party. Then again some of my friends did well balancing parties, and school. It's all up to you.

Alice

I went to Illinois, which has 35,000ish students, and was very shy (paralyzingly shy around girls). At any college there's a wide variety of people. There are a lot of partiers, especially Freshman year, but if you don't hang around with those people they won't affect you (except that you might have to find a quieter place to study than your dorm room). You'll also meet a lot of new friends (new ones every year). Join an organization or two to make more friends and feel more at home.

Amorphous Blob

Don't be afraid. Auburn has good academic programs, so you're likely to find some smart, shy people like yourself. And who knows, you may enjoy going to a few parties every now and then. New experiences will help you break out of your shyness. I am shy like you, and college was the best time of my life. You will do fine. Good luck!

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