How to ask a girl out in early high school?

How should I ask a girl out? I am in high school, and I need to know now!!

• I am a bit embarrassed to admit at 14 I do not have a girl friend, and have never had one. recently I almost asked out the girl that I really like, but then I thought "what do I say, and what do i do after I ask" could any one help me? thanks!

• Answer:

  I would not worry one bit about never having a girlfriend before. There is a first time for everything. At 14, you have plenty of time to meet women. You need to build up your courage. Then, wait until you get her alone. After that, ask her if she would like to go to a movie, sporting event, or a fast food place. You decide which one before you ask. Don't think about it too much. Just walk up to her and ask her. Do not be too upset if she says no. Rejection happens in the world of dating. Look at things this way: You have nothing to lose. Good luck! Have fun on your date.