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Is it possible for him to have "accidentally" added me on Facebook?

Should I ask people, who have added me on Facebook, why they added me?

  • A guy from one of my classes added me on Facebook, but since he did I tried to have had a conversation with him (Like "how are you", "like your picture", "you have funny quotes", ect.) but he either gives me no answer or one. Only once did he say more the three things to me. I have only tried a few times to get a conversation going, but when he doesn't answer me I get discourage. I am really thinking of asking him why he added me if he wasn't going to talk to me. I mean I don't care if he doesn't like me or if he does. All I care about is if he will talk to me, be socialable, and if he would like to get to know me better and become friends, but, to me, it sounds like he wants nothing to do with me. So, I ask again, should I ask "What's up?"?

  • Answer:

    To be honest, some people accept everyone. I have lots of people as friends on my page but rarely talk to most of them. I don't feel obligated to make comments to them all the time and I really don't want to. Some are there because I feel that I had to add them and some I really care about. Don't push him by commenting on his stuff all the time. Just make your regular wall posts, read what he posts and on occasion make a comment. If you always comment he might want to delete you if he feels you are stalking (not really the right word but I can't think of the right one) him.

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Well it depends if you know them. If u know them then they added you because you guys have met before. If you dont know them why accept the request? Just wondering.

justo16

Just delete him thats what I do if they don't want to talk and just need a number to look cool online then I don't want to be there number. Stay clear of guys from the forest service there jerks I deleted the ones I had.

hallagan

You know the answer to your question already, in your heart. All you need to do is ask yourself: "what do I feel in my heart that I want to do?" Your heart can se and understand such things that you are not consciously aware of.

legaata

Why did you allow him to add you if you didn't really know him? People can only request to be added and can't do it unless you approve.

Wellduh

I'd probably ask. Your questions are pretty legitimate.

Ditto

you can delete him from your page if you want so he'll know you don't care as much as he does. that's fair enough i guess.

Do you want to be friends with him, is the question? If not, unfriend him. (You're allowed to, you know) Sometimes I think one of the unwritten rules of some social network sites is "he that dies with the most friends wins."

nimby

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