Find solution
What makes a good phone conversation?

If a guy says he loves you over the phone but when you text him you love him, he doesn't say it back, does that mean he doesn't love you?

  • My boyfriend and I usually communicate through text. He wishes me a good morning every day and calls me beautiful but lately when I text him I love him, he doesn't say anything back, not even another text sometimes. And lately since last week, when I text him, we communicate in the morning and afternoons but I just noticed he hasn't been texting me at night anymore. He'd usually text me at like 6 or 8. It makes me sad, although I spoke with him over the phone last night and he told me he loved me. He told me he's been stressing this week since his roommate is moving out and he's struggling with bills. His phone was temporarily cut off for 2 days but it's back on but even so, he still hasn't been texting me back when I say I love you. It just ends the conversation and I don't hear back from him until the morning. I haven't told him about it yet or how I feel about it. Should I end our 3 year relationship based on this?

  • Answer:

    You have had a three year relationship via texts? That doesn't sound like it is going anywhere. if the man says he is stressed then why do you not accept that? If he had his phone cut off once already I would think he is very stressed. Cut him a little slack.

Miki10 at Answerbag.com Visit the source

Was this solution helpful to you?

Other answers

I know the females on here would like to make this into a man problem. But the reality is I am a man and this has happened to me the same way you describe many times from females. I used to get my feelings hurt for a long time because I kept putting out the effort to show I loved them and then they would do as you described. Now I've just grown to except it. Once in a blue moon they had a good excuse like me if you don't hear from me it is because my service has been cut off or the power went out. Some people are just busy which I have had happen to. Since you said 3 years on the bottom if this has gone on 3 years Girl you held on to long. Good Lord honestly. If not give him a little time if a week no hear he either found another chick or is slowly leaving you but his balls have not dropped enough to tell you like a man.

hallagan

You're kidding me, right?

Draedin

It doesn't mean that he do not love you. He just treat it as a replay for him and be calm, with happiness and joy.

y.Ranjith

Perhaps this is just a contextual relationship. Sorry just couldn't resist. If he is under stress then perhaps you should be focusing on ways to help him rather than fretting over the minor stuff, like missed responses to prompts for attention from you. Is it unreasonable to suggest that the two of you meet to talk together face to face and rather than making it about what he isn't doing for you right now see what you can do to make his life a little easier in any way. There is more to life and real relationships than lighted pixels on a screen or not.

zyrblue

Related Q & A:

Just Added Q & A:

Find solution

For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.

  • Got an issue and looking for advice?

  • Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.

  • Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.

Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.