My boyfriend always comes up with excuses when I ask him to go to the club with me but always goes with his friends?
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ok so this is really starting to get to me now. I constantly say how much I want to go to a club because I haven't really been to a "real" one yet. So he knows I really want to go to one. I've asked him multiple times to go with me, and it's either, he has no money, or he's working late, or he doesn't feel like it. I even offered to pay for him because I want to go so bad. Now the thing that's starting to anger me is that right after all that, he'll get an offer from one of his friends, say, a day later and he'll go with them. He'll tell me he's going to a club, yet he never invites me. Just this friday I asked him to come with me to a club and he said he would rather go do hookah, but they needed me to drive because he has no insurance. I have to share a car, so that went badly because I couldn't take it that night. He ends up telling me we'll go to the club the next day and he'll see me the next day. So then I find out he drove himself and his friends to a person who was also going's house, and they got a ride from them there but he didn't even offer to come get me. I'm always bringing his friends who don't have rides home, too, because I really don't mind. He even went to a gay club with his ex and her friends, without me. I really don't understand what's going on here, but it's really starting to piss me off. And I spoke to him that time, about why going to a GAY club with his EX and her lesbian friends wasn't working for me and that situation cleared up. But am I wrong to feel like this??? I need some insight from others because I really don't understand it. And, I would go out with my friends to the club but I don't have very many girl friends and the one I do have doesn't like going to clubs and always turns it down too. So I always end up by myself at night, pissed off, pretty much to tears because he says he cares for me so much yet why this? And I've been through my fair share of messed up relationships.
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Answer:
I would be more curious about who he was meeting at these clubs when you are not there. He has all the signs of wanting to appear to be unattached. Having you there would crimp his style.
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what your bf is doing seems strange and suspicious. but then again, he could just value his independence. most guys like their " guy time ". maybe he feels as if when he goes out with his freinds without you, its time away from you. its really not personal, but if i were in your situation, i would be extremely paranoid. i hope everything goes well.
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