Is it okay for my boyfriend to become friends with a girl he met on a dating site and insists on hanging out with her alone?

Okay, firstly. I understand his point of view with the whole 'You can't come too'. He probably feels as if he needs his own friends. Guys get like that. Sometimes it can be overwhelming for them to share so much with one person that they just need something of their own. Second of all, after agreeing to delete his profile that should have been it. Done. I don't know why, now he's in this relationship, that he needs to 'make friends' with two more women just before deleting his profile. The whole, 'text me as much as you like.' Was most likely his way to cool your nerves so you felt okay with this friendship, or at least so he could get out the door. the 'Stop bugging me' Completely uncalled for. I'd be pretty pissed about that if it was me And lastly. Doooonnn'ttttttttt just leave him! Talk about this! Sit him down. Tell him how you feel! Ask what he feels! Ask about the relationship between the two. But be calm. If you're gonna dive in with all these questions, he'll feel as if he's being attacked and get defensive. Which may have also been the cause of the 'Stop bugging me' text. After he's known this girl for a while and they become 'good ol pals' invite her around for dinner. If she's his secret lover or whatever, i very highly doubt he'd let her come for dinner. But if they're only friends, why not? Just don't let him fool you. :) Hope this helps! Good luck :)

hunny please OPEN YOUR EYES!! he's totally trying to hook up with other girls RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU! and ur moving in together????????????? i feel bad for u

It sounds like a very unfair situation he's putting you in, I'd cancel anything more to do with him. I can't see any positive way to view this behavior.

DONT move in... MOVE ON! You met on a web site, He will do the same again.. for sure!

I do not think there is anything wrong with the three of you hanging out together. I do not think it is appropriate for the two of them to spend time alone, though. I would insist on meeting her before the two of them spend anymore time together. He also had no right to tell you to stop bugging him. You are a very trusting person, however, I would advise you to ask some questions. You need to find out what he is gaining from this so called "friendship" and why he is being so secretive about her.

Ummmmm.... let me think about this one for a second - NO!!!!!! There is absolutely NOTHING even remotely ok with this... POINT BLANK AND PERIOD!!! As far as this guy is concerned, he has two choices here, YOU OR THIS GIRL, that's IT!! If he isn't willing to cut off all communication and contact with the broad, then you need to straight up ditch the loser! To me, this is a pretty cut and dry situation. NO IT IS NOT OK THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS TO BECOME "FRIENDS" WITH A GIRL HE MET ON A DATING SITE!! And another thing... no more text messages, ok? Doing that is just making you look "crazy", and adds fuel to the fire for them to talk shit about you. You need to sit this dude down when he gets home and tell him he's got a choice to make. If he can't bear to lose this girl's "friendship", then it's time to say PEACE OUT! You deserve better than this crap anyway! Good luck...

Wow that sounds really bad, there is actually no excuse for him to act so shady and disrespectful towards you.. Seriously, you're his new-ish gf still, right? I mean, if he really respected you or wanted to keep you around, he SHOULD know that he has to cut out the crap, and stop meeting other girls like that. I mean, if my bf did that to me I'd be like "fine, go ahead... but remember, once you step out that door, you'll have the pleasure of coming back and find your stuff on the street and on fire. I think then we'll be pretty even, huh?" lol... but in all seriousness, what was with the "stop bugging me" after he told you that you could text him all you wanted? Lame. call him instead and say "guess what? I'm giving you 30 min. If your ass isn't in this house by then, never expect your ass to enter this house in the future.." :D hope it helps, and let us know what happened.

No, it's not OK. Bless your heart if you think moving in with you means he's serious.

No. Get another boyfriend or you find another guy and insist on seeing him alone. I mean fair is fair, right? Happy Wednesday! :)