I can't stop crying after getting cheated on normal reaction? I was 8 years old the last I cried till now at age 22.

This to shall pass. Don't worry. You will heal. I promise. Please don't let him turn you into a man hater though. It will make you think all men are scum and they are not. There will be another guy come along. Now......about "HER", give me her address!!!

All of us cry when our feelings hurt. You know its like you’re spirit saying “how could people be so cruel to me” and your mind goes “be strong they don’t deserve your tears”, its all good don’t be ashamed of that. Yeh cheating sucks, sometimes I can’t believe how selfish people can be. How can you be so selfish? If you want to go with someone else than be with someone else, brake up but don’t cheat. Cheaters usually are the most selfish people because they want and want like little kids. They are to scared to be alone so they keep collecting people and don’t want to let go( Pathetic). Good luck though, find yourself someone that’s not a title B. Sorry for ranting.

cry and keep crying because when you're done crying, well... you'll just keep on crying

No that's completely normal. I'm 23 and I don't know how I would handle that myself any other way than what your doing. I've been a tom boy most of my life too but that's deep stuff that happened to you. It will take a while to get over and I'm sure it will always hurt a little. But not crying since you were 8? That's a little abnormal, glad your strong but 14 years with out crying isn't a good thing. Hope things get better for you soon. Hats off to you for not killing them both.

You know what you are just a normal human being. You learned that because you play hard that you have soft in your heart and it can be hurt. Don't feel bad you learn now instead of after you where married that he would cheat. No matter what if comes back to you crying and whining don't take him back he will only break your heart. Your friend is a slut no other way to describe her Cheer up better days are coming for you

Oh that sucks. Don't worry about the tears, they may fall for a long time, but you will heal. My first love cheated on me. I was crushed and did some things I'm not proud of. The pain was constant for long while. Thought about it every moment of every day. Then there were some moments I didn't think about it. Those moments grew, until I'd think about it maybe once a week or less often than that. It's been eleven years now. I still think about it every now and again, but there is no sting. I've moved on. And so will you.