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Thinking of breaking up with my Fiance, but the thought of breaking up makes me more down than I already am. Please read description

  • I am in a 2.5 year relationship, we live together, and per my previous questions ( so many people gave me great advise, thank you) In short she is controlling and at the start of the relationship she cheated on me, and can't even count the amount of fights she has started. Half the time she is perfect she loves me to death takes care of me we have so much in common and really get alone very well. Then is the evil side were the Devil horns come out and it's hell, that's why I am thinking of ending this, Yes I have talked to her many many many times and tried to make her understand what she is doing wrong, she will be good for a while and slip back to her old self . I wake depressed and sad and then the day continues and I am ok, it's like I keep my self busy so I don't think of the negative crap. The cheating after all this does not go away it's Still painful and it happened 2 years ago. Now I am thinking of breaking up and the thought of been away from her hurts more that what I feeling now, we had a fight 2 weeks ago were I left her for a week and she promised she will change, and so far she's an angel but that week i was away from her I could not eat I was lost confused / crying and she was a mess as well , I know she loves me and I love her but is love enough? So I what do I do ? it's like I can't win, "and I just want to be happy" If I break up what will I expect ? How hard will it be ? And should I break up with her? Please give me advise as i really cant think straight - has anyone else been in my shoes that can help me?

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    Put your marriage on hold Un propose to her. She becomes your girlfriend Re-date her work backwards with her. Find eachother again. Don't ask her what makes her act out like that just be observant while your together and when you find something say Im sorry I did that and see now it makes you angry and stuff. When she gets angry just go up to her and hug her and say I love you. Do what feels right in your heart. If shes being an angel, she might be forcing herself to and that might be making her crazy. She should only have to be herself around you.

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If you want it to be over do it the easy way. Let her walk in on you and another chic.

flustered420

yeah I feel you should pray onit,but if you can't work it outleave,I men I would say to leave anyway for her cheating on you.

just asking,do you know.

Dude, let me tell you - listen to your head (the one on your shoulders) she sounds a bit manic to me. You DO NOT want to marry a chick like this. Your instinct is talking to you loud and clear. There are plenty of fish in the sea, this one sounds awful. I am speaking from experience, there was one that I really liked - but my logical/male side always reminds me, she's the best thing I never had (married). I know she would have been insane to live with. God she was good looking - that was my c*ck talking. Find a peaceful level-headed one - they are the ones that are more worth the work. High maintenance ones will screw up your life. God help the guys that marry one of these nutbars, note - sadly they are usualy the better looking ones. Its just how it works mate. The better looking, the harder the work. Good luck to you in your lifes journey into understanding the 'un-understandable'. Women are beautiful, women are awful. It goes hand in hand. The trick is to learn how to bring out the beautiful, and stave off the awful, the bitching, the nag, the cow, the controlling (as you have noted) the complaining etc. It can be done, but it's not easy... it is a very long road.

Wpg

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