If you had to sum it up, what is your ultimate goal in life (just one)? And what is something that you want to avoid in life no matter what?

My ultimate goal is happiness, which I have achieved. Something I want to avoid, no matter what, would be attending funeral services for one of my children.

To do whatever I can to help others who are less fortunate. In my life, I want to avoid getting to the end and not having made a difference in the lives of others, whether or not they ever knew I existed.

my goal is happiness and acclaim for my writing and work in psychology. I wanna avoid misery

Only one ? Then it would have to be being a better parent than Mine were to me. I want to avoid loosing the respect of my friends and family.

My ultimate goal? To make a difference. What I want to avoid? Prison.

You go first.

My ultimate goal is to leave a positive trace in the world before I die, something people or a person would remember me for.. The thing I would avoid the most is not to get incurable disease, not me nor my family members and the people I love and care about... Have a nice weekend :)